There are a few issues I am finding a little frustrating with my sex life...
Firstly, I'm girlfriends vagina is very sort of big and loose. When we have sex I can't particularly feel anything.
My penis tends to feel unusually numb and desensitized after a time. That is to say, I can't feel that my penis is inside her. She tends to get wet very quickly and so my penis tends to slide in and out fairly easily I'm not sure if this would add to my desensitisation due to the wet feeling or not.
When we first had sex it was much better, I could feel things, and I could last longer, but now I seem to *** within 5-10mins.
The lack of tightness is a whole different issue. By no means is this necessarily a deal breaker because I love her. But, I'm just after a practical solution?
The act of sex I find is monotonous because I guess we have the same routine, but also I just tend to thrust away vigorously, and given the fact she gets very wet and isn't as tight as she can be at other times, it becomes something that tires me quickly, and I have to focus a lot mentally to get through it.
Sometimes I question if it is my level of attraction toward her, but then I often can achieve an erection when we cuddle. I just sometimes struggle to keep my libido and maintain an erection after so long.
At the moment im taking anti depressants so I'm not sure it this has caused my sexual dysfunction.
Any advice?