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self obsession??

Sometimes I think to myself that I must be really vain...I try to check myself but its really hard. For instance, if my friends have photos I take ages looking at the ones of myself, but I can't really be bothered to look at ones which I am not in. If I'm ever looking at someones myspace I always look to see if my name/picture has been mentioned. I think I am overly obsessed with how people percieve me. In every situation I think of myself and how I appear rather than particularly caring about how other people feel. I know this must sound terrible but I think it might be linked to low self-esteem ...I don't know.

I just wanted to know if anybody else on here feel the same??
Reply 1
Sound more insecure than self obsessed.

Everyone's going to be interested in how they're perceived to a certain extent, and will be more interested in photos of themselves.
Reply 2
I always check myself out in the mirror when I walk past it, though I'm not really too big on the photo thing or the Myspace thing.
Reply 3
Perhaps its time everyone gave Myspace a rest.
Reply 4
Sounds like you're normal to me. I do it too (not so much the MySpace thing though..) - look at photos of me in more detail. Mainly because I want to make sure the photos arent awful if everyone is going to be seeing them.
Reply 5
yeah i always scrutinise photos of myself and wonder 'why do i look so drunk when i only had one glass of wine' or 'how come i look such a minger next to my boyfriend in this one?!' :biggrin:
Reply 6
i always pull faces in photos.

that way its guaranteed to look bad as opposed to me trying to smile and it ending up looking bad un intentionally.
Reply 7
Yes myspace is rubbish.