Feeling like a child

i went to mixed schools so theres no reason from that. I think this is some sort of psychological problem. Im truly scared of like my family or friends finding out who i like, it feels ridiculous. I want to feel inside thats its ok before i do anythin about getting a girl. I feel if i did, id hide her from the world.

Don't worry about it, it will happen if you put yourself in situations where it can happen. Some tips:

1) Get a decent hair cut
2) Dont dress like a geek
3) Get slightly tipsy but not drunk
4) Find a girl who is slightly tipsy...I would say drunk but then a lot of people would cry rape
5) Dance with her for a bit, or not if you dance like a pleb
6) Go somewhere quiet, for a "walk". Hopefully you can go outside where it is cold, then you can put your arm around her.
7) Look into her eyes until you make eye contact, then instinct will take over. Don't go in for the kiss unless you are really feeling it.

Be yourself, don't worry so much about it. and whatever you do please don't try the above.

just talk to girls like their your mate, once you get in the habit of having girls as friends the rest will come easy.

Want to feel its ok have a girl at my side, to be proud and have no problem with her meeting my family and friends. Its hard to explain because i know in my head there shouldnt be a problem. But when situations arise it feels embarrasing to even think i like girls. No matter what i just cant shake that feeling and it makes me feel so stupid.

thats **** advice.

talking to girls as friends is completely different to talking to girls you like.

It sounds like you are worried about your sexuality, but worried that you might be straight and ashamed to tell people?

i do get on with girls. The closest mate ive had has been a girl, which is hard when they have bf commitments. I cant talk to lads a lot of the time, for example, at breakfast they where asking what they thought of "all the pussy at the welcome party" and talking about where to get stuff from dealers round here. I really dont like it when lads talk like that. It was the same with lads i knew in school and college, but talking about girls who were my friends. I just dont like that at all. With girls theres more a comfort that they wont talk about stuff of that nature to me and not gonna talk about lads to me either.

Hi, and im an 18 year old lad and ive been feelin really down for like 2 years. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me or feels the same way. The thing is, is ive never even kissed a girl or anythin (seen that thread "never been kissed", a problem for me but im dealin with it). I like girls as much as the next guy but i absolutely cant talk about it, i feel inside like a child who wont admit he likes girls. I dont know whats wrong with me and it makes me feel so stupid.

yeh, im at uni now

i go out if given the opportunity, i dance when i feel comfortable (I drink a little to loosen myself up but I dont go out with the target of getting wasted, and i never have been bad). As for my looks, im average height and build, no physical problems or anythin, but ive never had girls show an interest in me.