Situation

I really don't know where to start with this, my head is seriously messed up.

There's this girl who I know briefly to say hi to and have a joke with who I hadn't seen in ages. At the weekend I started randomly thinking of her and I couldn't get her out of my head. Then today, out of the blue I saw her when I was walking home from school, we talked for a while and I got her number.

The problem is that I have a girlfriend who I really care for, she's great and I love being with her but I am becoming more and more obsessed with this other girl. I really don't want to break up with my girlfriend and I don't want to hurt her by cheating on her but if the opportunity arises I don't think I could turn this other girl down.

I just feel so bad about this. Why am I so obsessed with this other girl even though I am happy in my relationship?

Reply 1

notts

because you are a tool.

next question?

Reply 2

pikaboo

There's obviously something lacking in your relationship, sort it out quickly or break it off.

Reply 3

Mr.God

Because you're a man and we want to spread our seed.

Reply 4

Captain Haddock

Because your heart can belong to more than one person

Reply 5

Scuttle

Because this other tart is fit and you'd "like to tug your boat in her face".

Reply 6

Ron Stoppable

Anonymous

I really don't know where to start with this, my head is seriously messed up.

Good start.

Reply 7

matt@internet

Peart

Because your heart can belong to more than one person

I agree with that. But I think for safety's sake you should either break it off with your g/f (I am opposed to this idea), examine your relationship with your g/f, to find if there is anything wrong (I think you should do this regardless of what option you choose, if any), limit contact with this other girl (and I think you should be honest with her why, the reason being that you are extremely attracted to her, but are in a happy relationship, and not because some guy on the internet advised you to) or realise that you are a grown man (hopefully) and that there are situations in life where you will just have to resist urges, and realise that people will find it hard to respect a person who cannot resist urges that everyone knows they should, including the person in question.
One of the important things that you mustn't do here, is assume that there is a problem in your relationship. People are to quick to decide that a roaming eye is a sign of relationship problems, and this isn't always the case.