Intimidated?

Why don't you start making the effort to approach girls? Once you've done it a few times, the shyness willl be a thing of the past.

I get cockblocked alot...either a) she shows interest, mates see it; so try to charm her instead or b) (this happened last night) I will talk to her, everything will be going fine (she will be talking to me, no problems), then one of her wally friends will butt in and ask her to dance or make stupid faces so she doesn't talk to me.

Its really annoying mate. So I generally don't bother, unless they make an effort.

Yeah, but the more times you make the effort, the more likely you are to succeed.

It's a matter of odds.

Yeah your right mate.

I guess I dislike clubbing in general, because when it comes to gals at clubs anyway its like 15 guys to one girl. Like one minute they will show you attention, then before you know it, someone else is already in there. Just end up thinking to myself "I really would have liked to got to know her, its a shame)..

Other times I find it impossible to make a move, because of circumstances (i.e. 5 girls in a group); very problomatic in that situation.

Eh? What clubs are you going to? The clubs I go to are about 50/50.

I doubt the ratio of men to women is so high that you can't go up to a girl and say "Hi, I'm Anonymous, can I get you a drink we have a chat?"

You can do that, if they are at the bar alone for example; much easier. Just that the gals over here like to stay in groups of 2/3 for the whole night; makes it more difficult.(as she would seek approaval from her mate , rather then think independently)

Yeah, but you're not facing any problem that every single other guy isn't facing.

Women love confidence, and if you have the balls to go up to her in a group of her mates and ask if you can get her a drink, she'll love it. Not many guys have the nuts to do it.