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Reply 380

Chaired a session at an in-house postgrad conference today. First time ever chairing! Never again #TLGProblems :tongue:

Reply 381

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by The_Lonely_Goatherd
Chaired a session at an in-house postgrad conference today. First time ever chairing! Never again #TLGProblems :tongue:


But well done you!!

Reply 382

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by The_Lonely_Goatherd
Chaired a session at an in-house postgrad conference today. First time ever chairing! Never again #TLGProblems :tongue:




Well done! I chair our local River Users Group meetings and it's tough! especially when I'm invariably the only woman in the room :/

Reply 383

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by The_Lonely_Goatherd
Chaired a session at an in-house postgrad conference today. First time ever chairing! Never again #TLGProblems :tongue:


Wow, well done! I chair a committee regularly but have managed, over time, to 'get the right people around the table' which is the first rule of easy chairing! An in-house postgrad conference is a different matter altogether, I'm impressed

Reply 384

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by sj27
But well done you!!


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by scarlet ibis
Well done! I chair our local River Users Group meetings and it's tough! especially when I'm invariably the only woman in the room :/


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by Jantaculum
Wow, well done! I chair a committee regularly but have managed, over time, to 'get the right people around the table' which is the first rule of easy chairing! An in-house postgrad conference is a different matter altogether, I'm impressed


Thanks all. I was chairing the musicology session and had to come up with questions about Schubert and Berlioz. Not my forte. Was very nervewracking - so glad it's over :o:

Reply 385

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by The_Lonely_Goatherd
Thanks all. I was chairing the musicology session and had to come up with questions about Schubert and Berlioz. Not my forte. Was very nervewracking - so glad it's over :o:


My knowledge of Berlioz extends as far as 'Scales and Arpeggios' :wink:


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Reply 386

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by Jantaculum
My knowledge of Berlioz extends as far as 'Scales and Arpeggios' :wink:


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:rofl:

Reply 387

I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.

Reply 388

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


Leaving aside the fact that this is clearly a disappointment (for which I am truly sorry; I have been there and it really hurts) a merit definitely doesn't shut the PhD door. It might make funding a bit harder, but a 2.1 and a merit is perfectly viable for admission. If when the dust has settled you want someone to go through the comments with you from the outside, I'd be very happy to talk to you over email or skype - when you first see them you're inclined to be fatalistic but they probably aren't as negative as they seem.

Masters degrees are hard programmes. They're selective for a reason. I would say that getting a Merit from a very good university is no small achievement and you have every reason to be proud of yourself even if it doesn't feel that way right now.

:hugs:

Reply 389

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


Huge hugs. It sounds like your dissertation marker had a bee in his/her bonnet, or/and that you got bad advice (or next to no proper advice? I can't quite remember :o: ) from your supervisor. That must be incredibly frustrating :frown: I don't have huge amounts to add but just wanted to give you a hug :jumphug:

In any case, all the best people get Merits (unbiased opinion of course :ninja: ) and it sounds like it was a very gruelling year, so you should definitely be proud of yourself :yep:

Reply 390

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


I'm really sorry to hear this, I understand how horrible it is not to get what you were hoping for. I do agree with Kitty Pimms, though; if you want to go down the PhD route there are opportunities out there for you to get something really good with the qualifications you have (and I say this knowing several people studying PhDs with me that also have a 2.1 for undergrad and a Merit at Master's!) But again, I know this can be a bit of a blow. Ultimately you've done incredibly well even if you don't feel like it right now. :hugs:

Reply 391

Lots of names I recognise here. I've been busy being a GOG for years now but I'm heading back to uni in September with any luck.

Reply 392

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


:hugs: But you've got a Master's with Merit, that's a fine achievement and something to be proud of. It will get easier.

Also I have a Merit (only just) and close to maybe even finishing a funded PhD! Do not give up if that's what you want to do :smile:


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Urgh, almost a month on since what happened happened and I'm broken, properly broken, Not slept properly in that month either. I guess the more you care, the more it hurts and right now it's ****ing painful. :frown: :cry2: :frown:

Reply 393

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.

At least you have a job - in IT as far as I remember. In this field you don't need many degrees to have a great career, and perhaps you will come back to Academia after several years of work experience.
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Reply 394

Am I right in thinking this is for people who've also been thrown in the big bad world? :tongue:

Reply 395

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


I can absolutely empathize with being disappointed even when everyone else thinks you've done well. Huge hugs :console:

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by Kitty Pimms
Leaving aside the fact that this is clearly a disappointment (for which I am truly sorry; I have been there and it really hurts) a merit definitely doesn't shut the PhD door. It might make funding a bit harder, but a 2.1 and a merit is perfectly viable for admission. If when the dust has settled you want someone to go through the comments with you from the outside, I'd be very happy to talk to you over email or skype - when you first see them you're inclined to be fatalistic but they probably aren't as negative as they seem.

Masters degrees are hard programmes. They're selective for a reason. I would say that getting a Merit from a very good university is no small achievement and you have every reason to be proud of yourself even if it doesn't feel that way right now.

:hugs:


This is (as usual from KP) very valid too.
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by apotoftea

Urgh, almost a month on since what happened happened and I'm broken, properly broken, Not slept properly in that month either. I guess the more you care, the more it hurts and right now it's ****ing painful. :frown: :cry2: :frown:


So sorry about this. :hugs:


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by Slowbro93
Am I right in thinking this is for people who've also been thrown in the big bad world? :tongue:

:yes:

Reply 396

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by Jangrafess
Lots of names I recognise here. I've been busy being a GOG for years now but I'm heading back to uni in September with any luck.


:wavey:

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by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


:hugs: I'm sorry to hear that Anatheme, but heed the advice above, it's still a fantastic achievement and your diss marker does sounds like they just took a dislike to the topic - same happened for my undergrad diss - I had one marker give me a 1st and the other give me a 3rd because it was "largely misguided"...:confused: Thankfully for me they rounded upwards but these things are so subjective

Reply 397

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by sj27
:yes:


:ahee:

Well background:

- Graduated from King's with a first in maths
- Decided to take a break after uni
- Now looking into a few master and PhD programmes
- Funding applications look scary as well (when you're competing against people with 85% and above it really does worry you :erm:)
- Also applying for a few grad schemes (got far in the civil service but no luck) incase I decide that actually post grad life isn't for me :yep:


Original post
by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


:hugs: The advice KP has given is really good and in a few months you'll be proud with your achievement (I know I am for you :smile: )

Reply 398

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by Slowbro93
Am I right in thinking this is for people who've also been thrown in the big bad world? :tongue:


Yes, there are a few of us lurking who aren't in academia. And we're just as grumpy!

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Reply 399

Original post
by Anatheme
I've just relived undegrad results day all over again today. Our results got released and once again, even though I got a Merit, it's nowhere near what I was hoping for. The worst is that I worked my arse off for this degree, and I feel incredibly stupid because my best is, quite frankly, rubbish.

The comments on my dissertation basically said that it was a pointless topic and I shouldn't have bothered with it, the exam that I thought I'd nailed came back with yet another mediocre grade and overall, I'm very disappointed. And everyone is trying to cheer me up by reminding me that I did get a Merit, but I can't help but feel miserable and stupid. It's just a matter of pride, I know that at the end of the day this grade won't count for much, but it definitely shuts the PhD door for me and I have no other academic chance to do better, now.

I'm gutted.


So sorry to hear this. :-/ And since people better than me have already given good advice about the approaching the dissertation comments and future PhD projects, just trying to send good vibes in your direction.



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by Slowbro93
Am I right in thinking this is for people who've also been thrown in the big bad world? :tongue:


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by Jangrafess
Lots of names I recognise here. I've been busy being a GOG for years now but I'm heading back to uni in September with any luck.


Hi! :wavey: Welcome to the grumpiness. (Trying to offset the cheeriness of the wave)