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I can't get a boyfriend. All my friends are pairing off now and it's making me feel very lonely. I know how sad this must sound, but I hate being on my own.
Anyone know any ways I can meet new guys? (I'm a second year so there seem to be fewer opportunities to meet new people)
Thanks in advance for any help :]

Reply 1

Mr.God

7

Nightclubs, bars, clubs/societies, dating websites, student websites, through friends.

Reply 2

Talon

18

Remember not to be afraid to ask out the guys instead of expecting them to do it...guys like that...

(Thats also a hint to any girls on here that know me... :wink:

)

Reply 3

Zafda

8

er yeah, just go out loads.
try and make some new single friends, make friends that do something completely different to you at uni, you'll be surprised what you find.
don't worry.. when the time is right you'll find someone.
is thereanyone you like?

Reply 4

pumking

call me.

Reply 5

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pumking

call me.

Yeah, cause that ever happens! :rofl:

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

I can't get a boyfriend. All my friends are pairing off now and it's making me feel very lonely. I know how sad this must sound, but I hate being on my own.
Anyone know any ways I can meet new guys? (I'm a second year so there seem to be fewer opportunities to meet new people)
Thanks in advance for any help :]

I'm a boy and can't find a girlfriend, I'm not looking to hard though.

I'm also a second year, but went back into university accommodation due to a financial screw up, I wasn't looking to it, but I've to more girls in the first week than I did in all of the first year.

What uni are you at?

Reply 7

LinziP123

it's annoying me recently cos all the guys i know have girlfriends! :frown:

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

I'm at Leeds university. Linzi, it's the same with me at the moment, and that's probably what's getting me down.
Thank you all for the help though :]

Reply 9

Ginger-Ice

You shouldn't feel influenced by your friends or pressured to have a boyfriend. I dont think boyfriends mean your friends can't go out with you still. All my friends had boyfriends from early ages and i never got my first till i was nearly 17. If u feel the need to have one, when u do get ne,it might not seem as great as you expected.
You could always try the internet? i know you hear lots of horror stories, but never the good ones. You might find somebody with the same intrests as yourself, just try some teen chats, or look for people in your area, have good long talks to them, see what think.

Jen x

Reply 10

username47781

20

Just because everyone else has a partner doesn't mean you have to yet, no rush seriously your still so young. But i wouldn't advise looking for a boyfriend in a night club.

Reply 11

Talya

16

F*** a fresher :wink:

Reply 12

britishseapower

14

I think the best thing is not to look, bit of a cliche but one usually comes along when ure not even looking and if ure looking all the time and not having any success then it's just going to get depressing and if ure depressed then ure not giving any good vibes off to a potential partner, it's a vicious circle :biggrin:

well thats what I keep telling myself...4 years and counting

Reply 13

britishseapower

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Talya

F*** a fresher :wink:

I can't even get near any freshers because my student loan hasn't gone in, 2 years in a row I've missed freshers week because of the student loan company leaving me broke, not that I would **** a fresher anyway but still, it's nice to have the option :biggrin:

Reply 14

Sharp_Shooter

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britishseapower

I can't even get near any freshers because my student loan hasn't gone in, 2 years in a row I've missed freshers week because of the student loan company leaving me broke, not that I would **** a fresher anyway but still, it's nice to have the option :biggrin:

Tsk Tsk

Reply 15

britishseapower

14

is that referring to the SLC or me? :p:

Reply 16

Sharp_Shooter

1

britishseapower

is that referring to the SLC or me? :p:

Well, we have come to expect that of the SLC...I was referring to you

Reply 17

britishseapower

14

I'm a good boy

Reply 18

Sharp_Shooter

1

britishseapower

I'm a good boy

Of course

and good boys like to keep their 'options free', just incase they need to entice a poor naive fresher with promises of ice-cream :p:

Reply 19

britishseapower

14

lol what I meant by options, was the option to go out and potentially shag, I don't care about shagging, I just want to go out, I was sat in my room last night taking notes from a law textbook whilst reams and reams of students were heading for nights out (my bedroom window is opposite the entrance/exit gates) it's depressing

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