love

Hi, im in a predicament. I really believe that im in love with this girl that i work with. She is perfect, when im with her its amazing, when im away from her i find myself just thinking about her (not even sexual thoughts anymore, just thinking about being with her). Im convinced that she really likes me aswel.

However - yes - she has a boyfriend of about 2 years i think. I know there have been many threads like this but the thing is she doesnt even seem very happy with her bf. Her best friend said that its a strange relationship, which i can already tell, they dont really talk much when they r out. When i go out at night with her and mates we r always touchy feely, holding hands sometimes. I have an amazing connection with this girl, my best mate also thinks that she likes me. I just dont know what to do, on the one hand i love her, on the other i cant really tell her my feelings as she is in a relationship, and i dont want to lose her as a friend on the off chance she doesnt feel the same way as me. But not being with her really hurts, its really bad as even songs remind me of her and i just think of her everyday :frown:

sorry for long post but what do u think i should do in this situation? thanks

Reply 1

Mr.God

Never rub another man's rhubarb.

Reply 2

doll-heart

Tell her you fancy her. Don't go mental and say you love her; tell her you really respect her and know she's with her boyfriend but you have to give her all the information just to make sure.
Then if she stays with him anyway it's time to move on fo' sure.