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What CAN I do??

I been close friends with a girl since begining of the year.

We would text each other every day but would always be her initiating the text conversation.
But I sorta got depressed in July and since then she hasn't been texting as much as she would do because she saw I had changed because been depressed.

But as I got more depressed I would text her frequently but not more than we usually did, just to talk to her, to get some support etc.

She saw this as me being a 'stalker' and being 'obsessive'!!
And she said this to my sister on MSN as the reason why she doesn't talk to me at the moment.

I talked to her on MSN last in late August and she said I had scared her when I changed so quickly and she wants me to leave her alone. Subsequently she blocked me.......

I am now back to myself, no longer depressed, but there is no way for her to see this and the only contact I have had from her has been one email in which I was quite hasty to get a reply.

She has also changed her mobile number......

The only hope I have of her being friends with me again is if my younger sister keeps mentioning me in MSN chats she has with her.

Is there actually anything I can do because I have only email and 'bebo' which I don't want to use to be honest to contact her!

Reply 1

And its worse seeing her daily at school............. :frown:

Reply 2

Are you that same kid who already posted this exact same problem?

Someone must be able to dig up the thread.

Reply 3

at the end of the day. shes a bitch. so dont bother with her.

Reply 4

Why does it matter? OK she thinks you're a little strange (she's entitled to her opinion, however misguided) which you say was due to you being depressed at the time....do you really want to be friends with someone who is so judgemental of you when you're in a bad place?

Move on. Forget about her.

Reply 5

exactly, stand up for yourself. You can find much better friends

Reply 6

:ditto: Listen to the irish one :biggrin: