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Will he think less of me?

Ok well tonight is the 2nd night I've seen a guy. We are in the same uni, we started chatting before we came to the same uni, and I met him in a party one night ago in person. We danced and kissed, and he texted me the next day and wanted to see me. We met today, kissed etc but then we went to my room and things got a lil bit carried away, (not sex). Anyway when he was leaving he said "when will I see you" and also "text me". Does that mean he's interested and he doesn't think less of me for getting a bit sexual with him? (gave him a bj).

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

OP

He didn't try to have sex with me so therefore he doesn't think I'm a whore.

Reply 2

Profesh

20

Anonymous

He didn't try to have sex with me so therefore he doesn't think I'm a whore.

Oh, that's simply priceless. I shall have to write that one down.

Reply 3

Qsteve

Anonymous

Ok well tonight is the 2nd night I've seen a guy. We are in the same uni, we started chatting before we came to the same uni, and I met him in a party one night ago in person. We danced and kissed, and he texted me the next day and wanted to see me. We met today, kissed etc but then we went to my room and things got a lil bit carried away, (not sex). Anyway when he was leaving he said "when will I see you" and also "text me". Does that mean he's interested and he doesn't think less of me for getting a bit sexual with him? (gave him a bj).

" Will he think less of me?"

probably.....you say that like its a bad thing?

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

That was abit quick for a BJ wasn't it?

And decent girls wonder why guys try it on with them? It's because of girls like you - because they've been successful before and there's no harm in trying with other girls. Yes, he already does think less of you and he does want action/sex.

..Long term serious relationship? No way.

Reply 5

anjurdsg

11

for heaven's sake, it would help if you people are a bit softer on the girl...

whats done is done... so stop treating her like she's a filthy whore

listen here you (OP): you gave him a bj...

and blackswan is right (though she says it a bit rashly) in saying that all guys want is sex...

but guys do change their mindset about a girl if they actually find out that she's really worth investing their energy into...

you say that he texted you asking when you will see him next... which means he is interested.. now your next step is to find out if he's really worth it or not.. if he asks for sex next time, resist it... play hard to get... dont be easy.. if you're easy he will lose respect for you and start thinking you're a play toy ... see if he is really worth investing YOUR energy into

and if he's just too damn arrogant about sex, then just dump him and dont see him again

Reply 6

flatliner

damn there are some harsh replies . .

anyway i'm a guy, and i definately don't go that fast, infact in my earlier days i would slap a girl for tryin it on anything before the 5th date **this has actually happened twice, both on the second**

but he most likely will use you ask his booty call, so unless ur down for that, dump him and know not to make the same mistake with ur next man

Reply 7

indy_punk

1

Flatlinerking

anyway i'm a guy, and i definately don't go that fast, infact in my earlier days i would slap a girl for tryin it on anything before the 5th date **this has actually happened twice, both on the second**

"Slap a girl"? ''Actually happened'' - what them trying it on or slapping them :eek:

Reply 8

Mr.God

7

Anonymous

He didn't try to have sex with me so therefore he doesn't think I'm a whore.

He doesn't think of you as a whore, he thinks of you as a bretahing blowjob machine that he doesn't have to insert coins into.

Reply 9

Tonka2

Anonymous

Ok well tonight is the 2nd night I've seen a guy. We are in the same uni, we started chatting before we came to the same uni, and I met him in a party one night ago in person. We danced and kissed, and he texted me the next day and wanted to see me. We met today, kissed etc but then we went to my room and things got a lil bit carried away, (not sex). Anyway when he was leaving he said "when will I see you" and also "text me". Does that mean he's interested and he doesn't think less of me for getting a bit sexual with him? (gave him a bj).

I did something similar 2 this an now i'm in a committed relationship with the guy, we've been going out for 2years.

Reply 10

*Ella*

Anonymous

Ok well tonight is the 2nd night I've seen a guy. We are in the same uni, we started chatting before we came to the same uni, and I met him in a party one night ago in person. We danced and kissed, and he texted me the next day and wanted to see me. We met today, kissed etc but then we went to my room and things got a lil bit carried away, (not sex). Anyway when he was leaving he said "when will I see you" and also "text me". Does that mean he's interested and he doesn't think less of me for getting a bit sexual with him? (gave him a bj).

If I was you, I would have waited to find out if he was prepared to wait too. Now you just don't know and only time will tell. But for the sake of your self respect and the respect others have for you, don't go so quickly again - even with the current man, if he's anything like the kind of mine you're hoping he is - he'll wait.

Reply 11

britishseapower

14

Anonymous

Ok well tonight is the 2nd night I've seen a guy. We are in the same uni, we started chatting before we came to the same uni, and I met him in a party one night ago in person. We danced and kissed, and he texted me the next day and wanted to see me. We met today, kissed etc but then we went to my room and things got a lil bit carried away, (not sex). Anyway when he was leaving he said "when will I see you" and also "text me". Does that mean he's interested and he doesn't think less of me for getting a bit sexual with him? (gave him a bj).

you should have thought about whether or not he would think less of you before you did it

Reply 12

--

3

Bloody hell, isn't everyone all high and mighty? I doubt he'll think less of you, probably the opposite in fact.

Reply 13

Toscar

11

i think its endearing.

Reply 14

Helenia

20

He might. He might not. But whatever happens you need to get it sorted out with him exactly where you two are going, and sort out your own opinions on men and sex. From your other threads you seem very naive, and I don't want you to get manipulated or hurt, which seems to be quite a danger at the moment.

Quite afew overly harsh replies here. I don't see the problem myself...

Reply 17

WokSz

17

anjurdsg

and blackswan is right (though she says it a bit rashly) in saying that all guys want is sex...

What annoys me about girls like you is that you assume all guys are the same, and that all they want is sex. There are guys that are different to this stereotype, and aren't exactly animals when it comes to relationships.