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What do girls think of guys who've never had a girlfriend?
I mean, they might feel indifferent about it, as though it's inconsequential to the person, I dunno. I was just curious if you ever thought it gave you an insight to the person or made you feel different about them.
Say, if you were interested in someone who was your age and had never had a girlfriend.
Say, if you were interested in someone who was your age and had never had a girlfriend.
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Reply 1
Generally if I meet a guy that hasn't ever had a girlfriend I think it's more appealing.
Reply 6
anjurdsg
then why do girls go only after players?
then why do girls go only after players?
i hate players
Reply 7
Why do you find it more appealing?
It suits me fine. 
I've had 3 boyfriends... The first one said I was his first 'proper' girlfriend (I get the impression he probably had a girlfriend in year 8 or something, where people have girlfriends for the sake of it but rarely even see each other out of school!). And that was fine, because I'd never kissed anyone before and I was kind of nervous. But he'd only kissed one person at a drunken party or something. So we were both kind of getting used to having a girlfriend/boyfriend...
The second one had had quite a few girlfriends, and I was the first after a girl he'd been with for about 8 months, who I knew at college. And that was awkward. Because I was scared of being compared, scared that he wasn't over her (I really wasn't over my first boyfriend at this point). This one didn't last long. I wouldn't put it down to that at all, it was just that we'd both gone out with each other for the wrong reasons - we liked each other a little bit (we're still friends) and just wanted someone to stop us feeling so alone, after the few months since our previous relationships had broken down.
And my current boyfriend had never had a girlfriend before me. And had never been kissed either (I'm pretty sure). He's just REALLY shy usually, and doesn't get out to meet new people much. But he knew me through college, and had liked me for months. He talks one-to-one, but not in a group, so we hadn't talked that much, but when I broke my ankle and was in hospital for a week, we sent each other several long emails per day. At first I just put it down to him always being online... But anyway, him having never had a girlfriend is fine. OK so he wasn't the greatest of kissers at first, but a) that's not so very important, b) he learnt... And I don't feel I'm going to be compared unfavourably with lots of other girls, by him.
(just for the record, these guys were all 17/18 at the times mentioned)
I've had 3 boyfriends... The first one said I was his first 'proper' girlfriend (I get the impression he probably had a girlfriend in year 8 or something, where people have girlfriends for the sake of it but rarely even see each other out of school!). And that was fine, because I'd never kissed anyone before and I was kind of nervous. But he'd only kissed one person at a drunken party or something. So we were both kind of getting used to having a girlfriend/boyfriend...The second one had had quite a few girlfriends, and I was the first after a girl he'd been with for about 8 months, who I knew at college. And that was awkward. Because I was scared of being compared, scared that he wasn't over her (I really wasn't over my first boyfriend at this point). This one didn't last long. I wouldn't put it down to that at all, it was just that we'd both gone out with each other for the wrong reasons - we liked each other a little bit (we're still friends) and just wanted someone to stop us feeling so alone, after the few months since our previous relationships had broken down.
And my current boyfriend had never had a girlfriend before me. And had never been kissed either (I'm pretty sure). He's just REALLY shy usually, and doesn't get out to meet new people much. But he knew me through college, and had liked me for months. He talks one-to-one, but not in a group, so we hadn't talked that much, but when I broke my ankle and was in hospital for a week, we sent each other several long emails per day. At first I just put it down to him always being online... But anyway, him having never had a girlfriend is fine. OK so he wasn't the greatest of kissers at first, but a) that's not so very important, b) he learnt... And I don't feel I'm going to be compared unfavourably with lots of other girls, by him.
(just for the record, these guys were all 17/18 at the times mentioned)
Reply 9
Id generally go for someone with a little experience.
Reply 10
anjurdsg
then why do girls go only after players?
then why do girls go only after players?
we think we can change em! lol well thats wat i think anyhow!
Reply 11
I think it depends on how old the boy is.
If he is 32 or something, then it would be weird!
If he is 32 or something, then it would be weird!
Reply 12
There are guys of all ages who've never been out with a girl, usually because of crippling shyness. Sone stay virgins all their life even though they'd love to have a relationship with a lady, they just never pluck up the courage.
I have no problem at all with inexperienced men (in fact I think they're an untapped resource of talent!)
The shy guys get the impression that girls prefer arrogant men (or 'players') because we ladies often sit back and let the men do all the work in pursuing us... so we end up with the men who have a huge ego, or an inordinate amount of self-confidence, or those who know exactly how to seduce a woman... and the sweet shy men sit at home crying into their playstations and wishing they had a girlfriend.
If - for one day only - shyness was abolished and the shy men all asked out a girl without fear of rejection, I think the world would be a very different place.
(DOI - I'm a single girl who's after a very shy man
)
I have no problem at all with inexperienced men (in fact I think they're an untapped resource of talent!)
The shy guys get the impression that girls prefer arrogant men (or 'players') because we ladies often sit back and let the men do all the work in pursuing us... so we end up with the men who have a huge ego, or an inordinate amount of self-confidence, or those who know exactly how to seduce a woman... and the sweet shy men sit at home crying into their playstations and wishing they had a girlfriend.
If - for one day only - shyness was abolished and the shy men all asked out a girl without fear of rejection, I think the world would be a very different place.
(DOI - I'm a single girl who's after a very shy man
)Reply 13
I didnt think there was a need to go anon on that post. Anyway ill reverse it, I dont mind an "experienced" girl, but I do agree that someone who hasnt been "around" is always nice. (Sorry for the quotes I am struggalling to find suitable words").
Anouther thing I find is that if the girl has not had as many boyfriends they tend to get closer to you, easier... if that makes sense. They aren't on the defensive as much. I mean im not 100% sure what I am trying to say here...
One thing at least I do know is getting with a girl just after they have been in a long relationship is never a good idea...
Anouther thing I find is that if the girl has not had as many boyfriends they tend to get closer to you, easier... if that makes sense. They aren't on the defensive as much. I mean im not 100% sure what I am trying to say here...
One thing at least I do know is getting with a girl just after they have been in a long relationship is never a good idea...
Reply 16
The_Bear
The guy who has never had a girlfriend before is likely to cheat on you as the "grass is greener"
Surely if that was true everyone would cheat at some point
Reply 18
If the girl was already into you, then yeah she probably would find it appealing, BUT, if she isn't attracted to you yet then it will almost certainly work against you.
You've got to remember that when you ask a girl this question, she picture's a guy she's attracted to, and how she'd react to it then, so of course she'd see it as a good quality.
If i was you i wouldn't bring it up unless you have to.
You've got to remember that when you ask a girl this question, she picture's a guy she's attracted to, and how she'd react to it then, so of course she'd see it as a good quality.
If i was you i wouldn't bring it up unless you have to.
Reply 19
Anonymous
There are guys of all ages who've never been out with a girl, usually because of crippling shyness. Sone stay virgins all their life even though they'd love to have a relationship with a lady, they just never pluck up the courage.
...
The shy guys get the impression that girls prefer arrogant men (or 'players') because we ladies often sit back and let the men do all the work in pursuing us... so we end up with the men who have a huge ego, or an inordinate amount of self-confidence, or those who know exactly how to seduce a woman... and the sweet shy men sit at home crying into their playstations and wishing they had a girlfriend.
(DOI - I'm a single girl who's after a very shy man )
...
The shy guys get the impression that girls prefer arrogant men (or 'players') because we ladies often sit back and let the men do all the work in pursuing us... so we end up with the men who have a huge ego, or an inordinate amount of self-confidence, or those who know exactly how to seduce a woman... and the sweet shy men sit at home crying into their playstations and wishing they had a girlfriend.
(DOI - I'm a single girl who's after a very shy man
)Thats me!! Just change the playstation to gamecube (not quite that bad tho) and the wishing part, im quite happy to wait now!!
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