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I'm 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, held hands with one etc. I have been asked out a few times in the past but I was always busy with exams so would decline. I do pay attention to my appearance and have good hygiene but I'm so new to all this, I don't really know how to get one. I commute to uni and haven't really joined any societies (if I did, I'd end up getting home REALLY late as I commute 2 hours there and back). What do I do?
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Wait until you're asked out again but say yes this time?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, held hands with one etc. I have been asked out a few times in the past but I was always busy with exams so would decline. I do pay attention to my appearance and have good hygiene but I'm so new to all this, I don't really know how to get one. I commute to uni and haven't really joined any societies (if I did, I'd end up getting home REALLY late as I commute 2 hours there and back). What do I do?
take the guy deepest in your friendzone and drunkenly kiss him, and come clean about your feelings after a night of passionate love making. he will reciprocate. guaranteed.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, held hands with one etc. I have been asked out a few times in the past but I was always busy with exams so would decline. I do pay attention to my appearance and have good hygiene but I'm so new to all this, I don't really know how to get one. I commute to uni and haven't really joined any societies (if I did, I'd end up getting home REALLY late as I commute 2 hours there and back). What do I do?
I'm same as you, except I've never even been asked out. Sorry I can't really help...


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Just be your self and chat with everyone , get know to a new people , and wait for the one who will ask you for going out.

best wishes <3
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(Original post by HandmadeTurnip)
Wait until you're asked out again but say yes this time?
But what if I don't get asked out again?
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But what if I don't get asked out again?
If you've been asked out in the past, it's pretty likely it will happen again. You could also do the asking yourself if you meet someone you like. Although, that's easier said than done if you're living at home and unable to join societies.
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I'm the same as you (except I'm as work) I've declined guys cause I just don't feel attracted to them (no spark) so yeah I'm just waiting for the right guy as well
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(Original post by BobbieShamrock)
I'm same as you, except I've never even been asked out. Sorry I can't really help...


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Me too. One of these days though, right?
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Just talk to some guys and if they're interested in you you could take it further. You don't have to wait for them to ask you out.
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how can girls have problems getting boyfriends? if you're a girl and reasonably decent looking, it is ez. contrary is the case for a male

good luck m8
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forget about it. you missed out on some good as wasabi
I tried wasabi once, never again...


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(Original post by TheElvenQueen)
I'm the same as you (except I'm as work) I've declined guys cause I just don't feel attracted to them (no spark) so yeah I'm just waiting for the right guy as well
Yeah I never really felt any spark with the guys who have asked me out either in the past, but then I just think maybe I'm just too picky and that's why I'm alone lol.
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Me too. One of these days though, right?
Ikr.
Not sure I'm the relationship type though tbh


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Here's a mind-blowing idea: Try and strike up a conversation with a guy and ask him out yourself.
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Why don't you just wait OP?
Relationships don't matter that much.
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Go on Ebay
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Don't look for a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend; let the feelings come naturally
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Why don't you just wait OP?
Relationships don't matter that much.
I suppose they are a bit of a hassle, I just feel like trying something new really. I'm fine with waiting, it's just if I'm in the same position once uni ends, then it's going to become even harder to find someone I think.
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(Original post by The2.2master)
Just be your self and chat with everyone , get know to a new people , and wait for the one who will ask you for going out.

best wishes <3
What if being yourself means being an introvert who finds it difficult to socialise?
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