This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- Old friend hearted one of my messages after a year of no contact. Why?
- am i annoying my flatemate by asking them to hangout?
- should i ask her out?
- When can I ask her out?
- Are we mean or is she?
- is "fave" a friendzone word?
- i think my face has ruined my personal life
- Am I being a mug?
- Roommate Dilemma
- A girl I really like: help from girls!
- What's going on?
- Confused about housemate
- Girlfriend doesn't like my friends
- I've
- Help with a girl
- My girlfriend is emotionally close to guys
- Gym crush didn’t reply to DM
- Bullying at University
- help need advice about a girl
- How do you have interesting conversations with girls?
Does she like me or is she being friendly?
Right been speaking to a girl over a month on here belive it or not! She is going to the same uni i am (freshers week started on sunday).
I feel we have a lot of common and have talked about interests, uni and things about that. We have swapped pictures, she commented on me looking very nice. She is quite good looking and told her (but didnt say it anymore!).
On saturday day before we left for uni, i said would be cool to swap numbers and maybe arrange something next week (like maye meeting up on tuesday), and she said thats a good idea and she was going to suggest that. So we swapped numbers and said maybe speak to you on tuesday.
Well yesterday, she texted me and we had a brief chat. Then later on, she phoned me, saying she was quite near my hall and asked if i wanted to meet up. I was just came back from registration (which is near my hall) so i said yep.
Talked to her for about 20 min, before we parted ways (had to sort out something with my student loan, she had to do something as well) and said see you soon.
I think she was being friendly, but ive spoken to a female friend ive known for years, and she reckons she seems quite keen and interested. Because i didnt anticipate her to text me on monday, and ring on the same day - so thats why she thinks she may be intersted (and obviously she has seen a picture of me as well)
What do you guys think?
I feel we have a lot of common and have talked about interests, uni and things about that. We have swapped pictures, she commented on me looking very nice. She is quite good looking and told her (but didnt say it anymore!).
On saturday day before we left for uni, i said would be cool to swap numbers and maybe arrange something next week (like maye meeting up on tuesday), and she said thats a good idea and she was going to suggest that. So we swapped numbers and said maybe speak to you on tuesday.
Well yesterday, she texted me and we had a brief chat. Then later on, she phoned me, saying she was quite near my hall and asked if i wanted to meet up. I was just came back from registration (which is near my hall) so i said yep.
Talked to her for about 20 min, before we parted ways (had to sort out something with my student loan, she had to do something as well) and said see you soon.
I think she was being friendly, but ive spoken to a female friend ive known for years, and she reckons she seems quite keen and interested. Because i didnt anticipate her to text me on monday, and ring on the same day - so thats why she thinks she may be intersted (and obviously she has seen a picture of me as well)
What do you guys think?
Reply 1
3
Erm, theres no way we could know to be honest. Could be friendly or could be that she fancies you, it seems a bit early to tell. It could be just that she wanted the safety blanket of knowing someone before she got to uni.
Reply 2
It would be funny if she read this.
MB
MB
Reply 3
13
She's keen, go for a drink sometime then invite her round and cook for her (something simple), get some wine in. Then come back here, tell me what happened and I'll instruct you further.
Reply 4
3
Or maybe have the computer on during and we can give you tips on moves etc?
...
...
Reply 5
If she calls you, she likes you. Otherwise don't assume
Reply 6
Chill out mate 
Dont worry about worrying whether she fancies you.
Continue to txt her but dont give her any signals that you fancy her then arrange to go out for a night out with a few friends. You should then get more time to talk to her and your get a better idea of whether she fancies you or not. Dont rush things but be confident to act if shes giving you the signals.
Good luck my friend im sure she will be eating out of the palm of your hand.
Dont worry about worrying whether she fancies you.
Continue to txt her but dont give her any signals that you fancy her then arrange to go out for a night out with a few friends. You should then get more time to talk to her and your get a better idea of whether she fancies you or not. Dont rush things but be confident to act if shes giving you the signals.
Good luck my friend im sure she will be eating out of the palm of your hand.
Reply 7
Everyone is like that at freshers week.
Reply 8
Yeah ill keep an open mind. im going to text her tonight asking if she is still ok for meeting tonight (which we said we should do a week ago)!
Then another time ill ask her to go out for a drink
Then another time ill ask her to go out for a drink
Reply 9
I would not rush into this, it's way too soon, there's a fine line between being very friendly and actually fancying. Ask her for a drink like others have suggest get to know her more.
Related discussions
- Old friend hearted one of my messages after a year of no contact. Why?
- am i annoying my flatemate by asking them to hangout?
- should i ask her out?
- When can I ask her out?
- Are we mean or is she?
- is "fave" a friendzone word?
- i think my face has ruined my personal life
- Am I being a mug?
- Roommate Dilemma
- A girl I really like: help from girls!
- What's going on?
- Confused about housemate
- Girlfriend doesn't like my friends
- I've
- Help with a girl
- My girlfriend is emotionally close to guys
- Gym crush didn’t reply to DM
- Bullying at University
- help need advice about a girl
- How do you have interesting conversations with girls?
Latest
Trending
Last reply 5 hours ago
What food item are you currently craving?Last reply 2 weeks ago
TSR Rate My Plate: post a picture of your delicious food!Last reply 3 weeks ago
can u guys help me get my mum back ðŸ˜(revenge post)Last reply 1 month ago
mum FORCED me to sign a (legal?!) contract to become a doctor or face DOOR removalðŸ˜Last reply 1 month ago
HELP!!! is this normal punishment or are my parents being weird???Last reply 1 month ago
feeling of bugs crawling under my skin/never feeling cleanLast reply 1 month ago
What painkillers do they give you when you get your wisdom teeth removed?Last reply 1 month ago
Can someone please help me tag Artful_lounger, i want to ask him a question
