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fallen for someone & leaving home. (long post)

i met the nicest boy about 2 weeks ago. i only spent about 10 hours with him in total, but i realised that i genuinely like him. at the time, i did know he had a girlfriend as he mentioned her in a conversation we had. i have a feeling that he liked me too, despite the fact he had this gf. i won't be seeing the boy again because i won't get the chance to do so, the only days i could meet him were on saturdays, and this saturday, i am off to university. i really wanted to ask him for his number, but i thought this might be a little bit cheeky as he had a girlfriend. so i just left it. and i came home that evening with tears in my eyes, because i regretted not giving him a way to contact me. i guess i could see him again at Xmas, but its just not the same.
so anyway, i randomly typed his name into a search engine on the internet, as you do. :p:

i found a website of his, with all his pictures and personal details & stuff. then i also saw comments that dozens of girls had left on his page about how he was a cheat etc etc. there was a comment left from a few days ago, from his (i assume) gf, saying how much she hated him, because he had cheated on her with 3 other girls, and how he lies about certain things for attention, as well him being hypocritical as he's a strict christian.
now i don't know why..but i still like him. i know hes a cheat & a liar but i still just cannot get over it. i know we had something special, and i just let it go, because i wanted to let Fate decide.
i know i need to let this go, because i really wanted to enjoy my university experience. but i don't know if i can enoy university now, because i might compare him with everyone i meet, or i might be constantly thinking of him? and then on the other hand, i don't want to see him ever again because i've fallen for him so deeply, that i just can't cope with not seeing him for months at a time.
what should i do? just let go & look forward to uni, or get in touch with him through this website he's on?
:frown:

Reply 1

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Right, so he's possibly a serial cheat and a liar and could potentially end up hurting you but you still want to see him?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

as stupid as it sounds, yes. i don't want to be hurt by him, but i just think that maybe we had something special. :frown:

Reply 3

tanusha-tomsk

18

i don't know if i can enoy university now, because i might compare him with everyone i meet, or i might be constantly thinking of him? and then on the other hand, i don't want to see him ever again because i've fallen for him so deeply, that i just can't cope with not seeing him for months at a time.

Very very unlikely. Just because you "genuinely like" someone doesn't make them the love of your life after 10 hours. On the contrary, if you end up with him you won't be ejoying yourself because this little thought "Is he cheating on me too?" will be bugging you, that's for sure. Go to uni and enjoy yourselF!

Reply 4

Sanity Panda

Agreed, best to move on. You'll get over it, since you haven't begun.

Reply 5

username47781

20

Do not even think about getting in touch with this horrible guy unless you want to self destruct your own life, you can do so much better than that, move on and find someone who will appreciate you more.

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

i think you probably attracted by his looks, so forget bout him i would say. There are more guys in Uni, no worries my dear!!

Hugs. i know it's hard to let go of a person u like very much.

Reply 7

sidi

1

then i also saw comments that dozens of girls had left on his page

...so dozens of girls have already thought they had something special....
This is called a lucky escape my girl. Roll on Saturday and have a ball at uni!

Reply 8

*starry_eyed_*

14

Anonymous

as stupid as it sounds, yes. i don't want to be hurt by him, but i just think that maybe we had something special. :frown:

how many other girls have said that?

Reply 9

NickNack

1

definately not worth it, forget him and goto uni happy. Youll meet someone there who isnt a cheat or a liar

Reply 10

Josiejo31

i know its hard but go to uni and wait until christmas, if u still feel the same then get in touch with him but other than that wait adn see what fate brings u!

fallen for someone & leaving home. (long post)

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