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just started uni bit depressed

hi just started uni at demontfort got to know a few ppl but they all seem to be out wen i go to see them. also collapsed on sunday nite and had my fone stolen. am feelin depressed and like i dont want to be here just needed to get this out in the open. has neone got ne advise :bawling:

Reply 1

sidi

1

It'll get better, give it time.Unlucky to have your phone stolen. I think everyone expects uni to be a bundle of laughs from day one. Sometimes it is but more often people feel a bit miserable, get ill, homesick etc.You're doing the rightthing by going out to meet people. If you live in halls leave your door open so people can pop in or say hello as they go past and you do the same. Give it a weejk and you'll feel completely different about the place.

Reply 2

username47781

20

That's not nice whats happened to you someone stealing your phone, shows the immaturity and stupidity of some people, they shouldn't be in Uni.

Just out of interest though is that De Montfort in Leicester or Bedford?

Reply 3

sunshine_6

OP

i know thats wot should happen but it feels like it wont happen. i had high expectations i suppose because i though it was goin to be great straight away

Reply 4

sunshine_6

OP

Carl1982

That's not nice whats happened to you someone stealing your phone, shows the immaturity and stupidity of some people, they shouldn't be in Uni.

Just out of interest though is that De Montfort in Leicester or Bedford?

leicester

Reply 5

leeeo

University and freshers week is rather over-hyped to be honest. My advice would be to push yourself to become a bit more involved - those people you know must be in sometimes, and when they are, find out where they're going or what they're doing. As much as you may not feel like it, you need to make sure you don't stay in your room and feel down; this will further fuel your depression and make it even more difficult to get out.

Reply 6

sunshine_6

OP

yeh i go out as often as i can even if im on my own i suppose it can only get better

Reply 7

Convalescent

To me it sounds like it's your own fault. You have to learn that you're not a child any longer and have to take responsibility for your own actions.

Reply 8

sunshine_6

OP

excuse me but i collapsed because i have low blood pressure and someone stole my fone whilst i was unconcious. who do u think u r judgin me :mad:

Reply 9

dementedbunny

11

i feel the same way :frown:

except it's really hard for me to meet people cos i'm shy around people i dont know..

Reply 10

sunshine_6

OP

yeh i can be shy sometimes its weird isnt it

Reply 11

Convalescent

sunshine_6

excuse me but i collapsed because i have low blood pressure and someone stole my fone whilst i was unconcious. who do u think u r judgin me :mad:

I doubt it. I theorise you collapsed out of sheer drunkenness.

Reply 12

The_Bear

13

Low blood pressure :eek:

how the hell did that happen?

Reply 13

sidi

1

Do you have meals in the canteen or do you self cater? If you're in the canteen you can make a point of sitting near someone on their own and just make a few passing comments. There's nothing more depressing than realising you haven't actual spoken to anyone all day. You don't have to view everyone as possible lifelong friends, just exude a general friendly air to everyone and you'll seem very approachable.It takes time to work out who you do actually want to be friends with.

Reply 14

sunshine_6

OP

Convalescent

I doubt it. I theorise you collapsed out of sheer drunkenness.

i did not get drunk i have really low blood pressure it just drops and i collapse wot is ur problem

Reply 15

sunshine_6

OP

sidi

Do you have meals in the canteen or do you self cater? If you're in the canteen you can make a point of sitting near someone on their own and just make a few passing comments. There's nothing more depressing than realising you haven't actual spoken to anyone all day. You don't have to view everyone as possible lifelong friends, just exude a general friendly air to everyone and you'll seem very approachable.It takes time to work out who you do actually want to be friends with.

self catered

Reply 16

hugsnkisses

9

Im sorry but low blood pressure can happen, i have low blood pressure constantly so why do people always judge, just because she collasped does not mean she was drunk, it could have just been medical.

To OP:- don't worry too much things will get easier at least you are living in thus you can make more friends and go out more without having to worry too much.

Reply 17

sunshine_6

OP

hugsnkisses

Im sorry but low blood pressure can happen, i have low blood pressure constantly so why do people always judge, just because she collasped does not mean she was drunk, it could have just been medical.
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thank u ppl always make assumptions

Reply 18

dh00001

16

what course do you do?
did you tell the police about the phone. if not do it soon, say you were too embarressed to come forward before or something, get a crime reference number.
do you have a sahrd kitchen thingy?

Reply 19

sunshine_6

OP

nursing
i have told the police but there isnt much they can do because there was alot of ppl around.
yeh we have a shared kitchen

just started uni bit depressed

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