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So, basically I want a way to say Hi to a friend (close friend (guy)) because he never sends a message - It seems I have to ... and when i do he is so interested to continue chatting till 1 in the morning. So what is a better way of saying "Hi, what you up to? missing me or you just cant be bothered to say Hi!!"
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From past experience, you'll probably end up losing contact sooner or later. Like if you're always initiating contact, eventually you will get fed up and stop messaging, and they will probably never message you to find out why. Even if they then maintain a conversation for hours, you have to think you are the one always starting the conversations. I am not saying that will happen, but when one person doesn't put in enough effort, sooner or later it falls apart. I never asked why they never messaged me. I just left it. And never spoke to them again




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(Original post by Tillybop)
From past experience, you'll probably end up losing contact sooner or later. Like if you're always initiating contact, eventually you will get fed up and stop messaging, and they will probably never message you to find out why. Even if they then maintain a conversation for hours, you have to think you are the one always starting the conversations. I am not saying that will happen, but when one person doesn't put in enough effort, sooner or later it falls apart. I never asked why they never messaged me. I just left it. And never spoke to them again




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Yh thanx same thing here - I really am not going to
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First sign of laziness
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He's probably just used to you initiating it. One of my close friends is the same. I'm usually the one initiating, but it's pretty obvious from her replies that she wants to talk to me and she always makes an effort to carry on a conversation. So I don't see a problem.

I think a lot of people just don't like texting first, I don't do it an awful lot for various reasons. It's how they reply that shows if they can be bothered with you or not.
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My friend did this, however I just texted others and he eventually texted me, wouldn't recommend it though


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I have the same feeling. But that's more about a guy I like, and I am pretty sure that he likes me because he hinted strongly towards it while being drunk. And we have talked for about two years, but now I just feel stupid because I always have to start the conversation. So I just assume that he just don't like me anymore, and that's fine
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Either he is really into you and doesn't want to look needy or just not that fussed about you. If it was me and you text me first and i liked you i would probably invite you out to do something.Most guys don't do this though, you should probably invite him out and see what his response is.
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Either he is really into you and doesn't want to look needy or just not that fussed about you. If it was me and you text me first and i liked you i would probably invite you out to do something.Most guys don't do this though, you should probably invite him out and see what his response is.
Hahaha, was that for her or me?
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Hahaha, was that for her or me?
It was for her but you are basically in the same situation.i'd say like 90% of guys are clueless when it comes to girls. If he is a "nice" guy and likes you i don't think he will ask you out unless he decides to man up haha You will have to do all the work btw
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It was for her but you are basically in the same situation.i'd say like 90% of guys are clueless when it comes to girls. If he is a "nice" guy and likes you i don't think he will ask you out unless he decides to man up haha You will have to do all the work btw
Thanks but i think he should at least say 'Hi'...
He is a nice guy
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It was for her but you are basically in the same situation.i'd say like 90% of guys are clueless when it comes to girls. If he is a "nice" guy and likes you i don't think he will ask you out unless he decides to man up haha You will have to do all the work btw
Hahhaha, well, we'll see when he gets home
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go No Contact™
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Thanks but i think he should at least say 'Hi'...
He is a nice guy
Probably testing to see if you like him.Sometimes i do that, when a girl texts you first that is a huge sign.

If he continues to text you he probably likes you or is just really lonely and wanting someone to talk to.
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I hate texting unless it's to arrange a meet up or something so I pretty much never text first~

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Talk to him about it? maybe he is too shy to text first?
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