Damn...another girl thread

I'm kind of disappointed in myself that i'm making this thread as i always seem to fall into this pattern of getting drawn into a girl and it cuts me up inside even though there's little to be upset about. I'll take it from the top...

I was away with a group in summer and saw a girl who i thought was "a bit of alright" and looked kind of familiar too. Anyway, she kind of approached me and we spoke a few minutes and then we parted. Saw her later that night and again we spoke briefly. Over the course of the week i saw her a few times, spoke to her for about an hour one night about all sorts of things; she started speaking about a guy she was seeing for about a month who was a "beefcake" (i'm not exactly one of those). We seemed to chat quite easily and i felt comfortable with her; but i'm not the type of guy to just pounce on someone and something bothered me about her, she's not my usual type and while i was attracted to her part of me wasn't and there were concerns from me of her past (as i'm not experienced in such matters).

Anyway, day before i left to come home i chatted with her for a few hours in the afternoon and again it seemed really comfortable. That evening i asked for her number and she gave me it. Came home, and a few days later i texted her just asking general stuff like how she is and how her trip was etc. I didn't get a reply. I started thinking if she gave me the wrong number on purpose, or if she typed it incorrectly by accident etc. Saw her about a week later and we spoke for about a minute, but it was short and i wasn't sure if she wanted to be speaking with me.

Taking this up to pretty much today, i added her through the wonders of facebook. Her MSN was on there so i added her there and we spoke for like the first time the other day. As usual it seemed cool speaking to her and i tried to be a bit flirty - but nothing over the top. Taking it to today, me being my paranoid self have noticed she's not online and i hate myself for reading so much into it but am thinking she blocked me. I checked with another address and she's offline too; so she probably is. :rolleyes:

I know i'm just setting myself up for a fall as i'm not her type (i don't think) and i think it's just a friends thing. But part of me is curious but don't know how to take it further from here (especially if she did block me; in which case i won't bother any more)

So that's my un-interesting story, just got all these thoughts running through my head and being really paranoid. I know i'm going to end up getting hurt, but i still do this to myself and i said i wouldn't any more.

Thanks if anyone read my ramblings and i'd be interested to read anyone's thoughts/advice.

Reply 1

loopylouise

Don't get paranoid, she might have something big happening to her. Chill out but don't get your hopes up too high. If she's online, talk to her, if she's offline, don't panic.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

I'm going to try not to get my hopes up, but part of me is so curious. I really felt comfortable with her :frown:

With our distance at the moment i don't even know if i can take it further, or how to. It's just internet, part of me is so curious to call the number too to see if it's even the correct one.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

I'm going to update as a lot of people read - but not many replies.

So it turns out i wasn't blocked as i saw her later on, but i think she blocked my other account (which she doesn't know is mine). Tried speaking with her tonight, but she's probably out or not by her computer which is understandable. I was just out the other night and i saw how easy it can be to just meet people out and about and one even asked for my numbe, but in the back of my mind i felt it was wrong because i like her.

The only part of confusion is whether i like her as just a friend or if i'm just trying hard to make it into something more. So confused at the moment and i want to speak to her about it but can't as it'll be over the internet and i don't want to call her as i don't know if we're even that close :frown: