understanding people

OP

what if ur close friends were telling you to shut uo and that they were sick of it?

Reply 3

Then it may not be such a good idea. Whats the problem?

Reply 4

OP

i dont really want to say the problem. forgive me. ive posted it loads of times and from my friends all i got was ' get over it...its stupid childish and immature' it made me feel terrible, embarased and ashamed.i was just wondering if it needed to be said to someone if something was bothering you a lot

Reply 5

Triplet1

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Anonymous

i dont really want to say the problem. forgive me. ive posted it loads of times and from my friends all i got was ' get over it...its stupid childish and immature' it made me feel terrible, embarased and ashamed.i was just wondering if it needed to be said to someone if something was bothering you a lot

why not tell us the problem and we will tell you what we think?

Reply 6

Well, you could suppress it and then ten years later spend a lot of money on very expensive therapy if you wish. :smile:

Reply 7

OP

Triplet1

why not tell us the problem and we will tell you what we think?

ok so please dont slate me or whatever im really embarased about it and i suppose its really childish but its how i feel.

well at school i did some really embarasing things with this teacher, well i had a crush on him and he found out. i later realised what i really felt for him. i look up to him and respect him loads.i no longer have a crush on him. i feel stupid and immature for having done so, ive moved on. but in retrospect i still care about him. i look up to him loads, he has a lot of good qualities. well i want to be a teacher just like him and teach the same subject. hes inspired me.
well after all the embarasing things ive done, i cant look him in the eye. i guess i want to get to know him and kinda be his friend...like have friendly convos in school. also i see him as someone i can trust and ask advice of and to know if he can be there for me if i need him. thats what i want off him..sorta in a fatherly way..ish..im embarased abt how im feeling. i feel guilty that i want it off him, i mean how can i expect him to? but i cant help how im feeling. i dont even no if its ok to feel this way.
i want to tell him. but im sure if its the right thing to do. its really stressing me out and getting me down. there ive said it. sorry if its stupid and childish.

Reply 8

OP

sorry typo *not sure if its the right thing to do

Reply 9

Telling him wont accomplish anything, teachers can't afford to get that close to young teenage girls that have crushes on them. So him becoming your friend is very unlikely. Add to the fact he already knows you have/had a crush on him, if you tell him how you feel there are probably only going to be two possible scenarios. One, if he thinks with his head (which should happen about 99% of the time) he'll do his job and reject you, maybe in a nice way or maybe in a way that makes you feel as big as an ant. Or, he could think with his penis, do something really stupid and lose his job and probably end up in jail, having sex with people a lot older than you, a lot hairier than you and with a lot more penis than you. So there arent really any happy endings if you tell him. :smile:

Reply 10

OP

when i say friend. not a relationship, i mean just...talking to him in school generally. i do not have a crush on him anymore. i just look up to him loads. oh man ive screwed up everything havnt i

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