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Don't know what to say

I used to talk to this person everyday on the phone, but now we hardly ever talk although I really want to. I can only get in touch by text now but I dont know what to say to them anymore. I've done this two times, just saying, 'hi, how are you etc.' The last time we 'spoke' or rather texted, was 4 days ago. Now I don't know what to say to them to get the conversation flowing because the two times I've started a conversation, it goes really awkward after a few texts. I miss talking to this person so much but I don't know what to do anymore. Any ideas as to what I could say to them to start it off?
Thanks.

Reply 1

"I love you". It'll get them panicking and should need at least ten texts' worth of explaining.

Reply 2

How about: I miss talking to this person (insert name) so much but I don't know what to do anymore.

Or just say ''HELLO. I know you are absolutely besotted with me, so I thought I'd text you again. Havent text you in ages, but how is everything. (any additional stuff about etc)''.

Reply 3

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"I love you". It'll get them panicking and should need at least ten texts' worth of explaining.


I did love this person. I think I still do. They said they loved me too. Now I find it hard to even talk to them and it's (sorry for the cliche) breaking my heart.

Reply 4

I normally apologise for being absolutely rubbish at staying in touch - since most peoplea are themselves, normally everyone is cool with it.

Reply 5

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I did love this person. I think I still do. They said they loved me too. Now I find it hard to even talk to them and it's (sorry for the cliche) breaking my heart.


If you're in love with each other, surely talking should come naturally? Maybe there's something that's gone wrong with the relationship. I can talk to even people who are just really good friends forever!!

Reply 6

just phone and say hi!
then at the end suprise them by saying "i love you" u'll be forgiven :smile: