Break up?

Me and my bf have been together for 7 weeks and I just don't feel anything for him anymore, saw him today and it was awful I just wanted to leave.. i want to be friends with him though and don't wanna hurt him, how do i break up with him? what do i say?
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Reply 1

username47781

Honesty is the best way you have to tell him although he is likely to be very upset about it, maybe you are not ready to have a boyfriend yet, just out of interest how old are you both?

Reply 2

sr4470

Carl1982

Honesty is the best way you have to tell him although he is likely to be very upset about it

Which is where you explain you will be there for him as a friend.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

We're both 17, i really don't wanna upset him tho cus he's so lovely

Reply 4

LadyEnglish

Honeshty is the best Polishty. Just be very caring about it and explain he's a lovely guy and all that shizzle but you prefer being friends bla bla bla :p:

Should be fine if he's a nice bloke :biggrin:

Good luck xxx

Reply 5

Well, then don't tell him, and live the rest of your life with someone you don't feel anything for. :smile:

Or, break up with him and save both of you some heartache - im sure he doesn't really want to be in a relationship with someone that feels nothing for him.

Reply 6

username47781

Well if hes as lovely as you say why not try and do some things with him like go to the cinema, 7 weeks really early to make a true judegment, trouble is also at 17 your feelings change alot and you don't always know what you really want.

Lots of girls would kill for a guy like yours.