I feel like a loser...

hi guys,

well recently i've been feeling kinda low and to an extent, like a loser! the main issue is that i dont really have anyone special in my life at the moment... im a guy and im bi, but ive never actually had a relationship.... i find it difficult to go out with girls because of the fact of telling them that im bi, but difficult to go out with guys because i cant find any nice ones....

you may think that at almost 20 i would have had quite a few relationships under my belt but i used to be really insecure about my weight(coz i was overweight) and still am a bit, insecure that is.

But now i really just wanna get on the dating scene, ive had sex with a woman (never with a man), although i have had sexual relations with men and i really feel like im not "living life to the fullest", as i've had few relations with any member with the opposite sex (superficial but is important to me)

Being Bi and insecure makes it quite difficult because i find it hard to decipher when girls and guys find me attractive, i think im alright but nothing spectacular, but any tips for this ,nearly old loser... how do i get into the dating scene and am i being over dramatic?! :confused:

Reply 1

kinkajou

try playing yourself at monopoly..that way you're guaranteed to win!

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

tut! lol i need help

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

not in a psychiatrist way.

Reply 4

kinkajou

lol ok lol

Reply 5

LadyEnglish

Maybe your decision would be easier if you sat down and decided if you are gay or straight. 27+ I don't think you consider yourself 'Bi' The majority of people know by then what they are so maybe you feel down and insecure because you're confused?! :confused:

If you want to get in on the dating scene go out and partay :party:

lol And if you're insecure about your weight go to a gym! You seem to be insecure about things you can primarily sort out so there's no point feeling sorry for yourself if you know you can sort it out. You sound lazy to me :p: