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i feel like crying

i'm soo bloody stressed

i havnt heard from my bf in 4 days, i mean we never not stay in touch for this long, im scared that something might have happened, i dono i cant phone him because his parents dont agree on a realtionship before marrage, ahh i cant explain how i feel its very depressing also its like a distance relationship so i cant just pop in and say hi

i really feel like sick and i have no clue y i am making a thread but please i just need some opinion on what could have happened, im online but hes not.

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Reply 1

G4ry

Did you make a thread about him not replying to your Emails but you knew he'd been reading them? Or is this something different?

Reply 2

LadyEnglish

4 days...jebus relax. You sound bordering obsessive with the boy :confused:

scary. Just calm down a bit, he's probs fine. If you're in uni/college he may just have a lot of work. You said you can't phone him, text him? And lets not rule out the chance his computer may not be working...x

Reply 3

Alice 00

why do people stress about situations they can't control. if he is dead there is nothing u can do about it.

Reply 4

loopylouise

Email him. Something like, "It seems like I've not heard from you for ages..." then tell him a bit about what you've been up to and ask him how he is. My bf went on holiday for two weeks and we emailed coz he couldn't get to a computer with IM.

Reply 5

LadyEnglish

Alice 00

why do people stress about situations they can't control. if he is dead there is nothing u can do about it.

Aah Alice, the little ray of sunshine that roams the H&R board with her oh so helpful threads and posts :biggrin:

Reply 6

Alice 00

Thanx LadyEnglish :smile:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

well i did mail him, he didnt answer

Reply 8

LadyEnglish

Then wait...
Patience is a virtue x

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

i have been for about 4 days and its really worring me, what if something happened to him, im getting some really silly ideas in my head and i hate it

Reply 10

Alice 00

whatever has happened to ur boyfriend has happened. he may be dead, he may be with another woman, or he may be busy with something.

the only certainty you have is that no matter how upset you make yourself what has happened to him will not have changed.

the only effect of stressing yourself will be to make you ill. relax and watch you've been framed or something, that always cheers me up. :smile:

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

please dont say that, i dont want nothing happening to him okay maybe he is going out with someone, i know he isnt but okay fine, there is no way hes dead. He cant be!

Reply 12

Alice 00

who knows?

The point is that whatever awful thing or happy thing has happened to him, worrying won't change anything.

x

Reply 13

Sithius

4 days and you think he might be hurt?
:rolleyes:

Reply 14

FrisbeeFan

Alice 00

why do people stress about situations they can't control. if he is dead there is nothing u can do about it.

That must be one of the most incredibly tactless thing to say I've ever heard! :eek:

To the OP: Have you tried texting him? You say that his parents are against relationships before marriage - well, could you not get a male mutual friend to ring his house phone and ask how he is? If you got someone like that to ring first then maybe you could switch with him on the phone and get to speak to your boyfriend after all.

Calm down and think of all the options. It is incredibly unlikely he will be dead or anything that bad. Maybe his family has found out about you and has grounded him. If so I'm sure you can find a way round it, you just need to think things through calmly and logically.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

thanks frisbeefan!

no i havnt tried texting him and i dont think its a good idea, i dono im not sure, that did come to me about him having a fight with his parents but i dono im just totally confused at the moment, i gess if i dont get anything next week then i might need to try something