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Nah you don't need to the first time, just go for the drink with her.
Reply 2
Carl1982
Nah you don't need to the first time, just go for the drink with her.


yes i agree! :biggrin:
Reply 3
at what point would you get something then?
not yet....just go for the drink..you might not hit it off and youll end up looking like a plum...just buy her drinks and walk her home.then tell her you had a really good night and 'fancy doing it again some time?'
Anonymous
at what point would you get something then?

birthday, anniversary, valentines day....

if you really want to get her something then do it while your with her for now so its not so in your face cheesy romantic.....and preferably do any buying after a few weeks of going out and good signals from her...if your passing a flower stall with her for example get her a single flower....
Reply 6
when do you consider to be 'going out' with someone?
id say when youve been seeing each other for a few weeks and hit it off..ie your texting eachther regularly and shes being responsive..shes not your gf yet shes just going out for a drink with you, obviously i dont know the situation fully but i have been out for 'drinks' with guys who never became my bf's becuase drinks are just a way of seeing if you have a spark.....
Reply 8
well how do you know if she likes u
Reply 9
id always give her a jonny
Reply 10
lol
a guys given me a flower on a 1st date before. it was great, he delivered it with a bow and it just made me laugh so much.
Anonymous
well how do you know if she likes u


If she likes you she'll agree to meet up again. :smile:

Don't rush into things, keep your options open.
Reply 13
so the general feeling i got is no, but would she be scared/impressed if she got something?
Reply 14
no.

just dress appropriately, smell nice and smile.
Reply 15
Alice 00
no.

just dress appropriately, smell nice and smile.

what sorts of things do i put on - just normal deodorant? or what? i've never met up with a girl before (yes, I'm at uni already)
yeah its all in the smile. buying something could make her interpret u in loads of different ways endless possibilities. she's not gonna develop stron opinions on u not getting her anything, whereas she mite if u do, plus if u do first date it sets a precedent. just smiles and confidence are the best imo
lol idk dress for the kind of person you are, don't dress as someone your not. the way ur tlking it seems ur getting quite worried about it. its the u that she knows which she agreed to meet up with not some other u that you could become as a result of reading what people suggest here.
Reply 18
Top tips for "going out for drink":
1.Wear some sort of wacko suit; Willy Wonka is always a good fashion icon I found, I mean you wanna stand out from the other guys don't you?
2.Go for the sweaty look, a girl likes a "real man"
3.When you meet her do some sort of practical joke, like when she shakes your hand, watrer sprays at her face, humour is essential in any relationship!
4.Wear a condom on your head, this isn't too obvious, but it subtley shows your serious about dating her.
5.And last but not least, hold her hand at all times and whisper in her ear really loudly that she should "go back to my place", so everyone can hear, and you can declare your love. It shows you're not embaressed of her.

Good luck :smile:
Reply 19
u shouldn't be nervous. girls aren't monsters.

what u dress obviously depends on where u go. maybe u could wear something with some flair to act as a conversation breaker. yes use deodrant. that is very important. don't use too much aftershave though.