what's going on in his head?

basically, i met this boy first week of school and well, we clicked. we flirted all the time in class and talked and it seemed like he fancied me. i soon found out from one of his friends that he did and he found out that i liked him too. after that though, he seemed to withdraw a little. (ie less flirting/communication all together.) now, we're almost back to where we started and we've known that we've liked eachother for a month now and nothing has happened! i make every move. i gave him my number, invited him to a concert, said i liked him via an email (which he did not reply to.) everyone says he likes me, but if he does, why does he do this? is it so hard to just ask me out already? do any of you guys have an idea of what is going on in his mind? :frown:

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

playing hard to get.

Reply 2

filastini

14

Maybe he found someone else?

Reply 3

tari :)

8

Maybe you should ask him. :smile:

Reply 4

filastini

14

Nevatary

Maybe you should ask him. :smile:

Good idea

Confront him and ask him :ts:

Reply 5

tari :)

8

justfarhan

Good idea

Confront him and ask him :ts:

I'd suggest without the gun tho. ^

Trust me, you should ask him before you miss the opportunity or you'll never find out.

Reply 6

WokSz

17

Maybe he's just intimidated. If he's not making the first move, why don't you?

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

WokSz

Maybe he's just intimidated. If he's not making the first move, why don't you?

yeah, i have been...i just think that the guy should be the one to initialize the whole relationship thing... :confused:

Reply 8

dh00001

16

Anonymous

yeah, i have been...i just think that the guy should be the one to initialize the whole relationship thing... :confused:

you might want to drop that attitude else chances are you wont get anywhere, hes waiting for you youre waiting for him

Reply 9

Reue

20

Why do girls feel the need to sit back and wait for the guy to come to them?

If YOU like a guy, why dont YOU go over to him? Any girl that i knew liked me but couldnt be bothered to make the effort to come talk to me, isnt worth my time.

Go talk to him, find out whats going on.

Reply 10

--

3

Why does he have to initiate it? It's 2006 for christs sake, Feminists have died so you can ask a boy out! (That may be a lie)

Reply 11

username47781

20

He might be shy.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

yes, but im kind of a chicken :redface:

i did give him my phone number, and ask him to go places with me (he never called me and had to work that day...) yet everyone still says he likes me. i just think that if he does he should do/say something. anything. just hearing "hey, i like you too" would please me at the moment, but he insists on pretending like he doesnt know anything... :frown:

Reply 13

macho action man

hes shagging another bird innit

Reply 14

MagicNMedicine

20

well if youve asked him to a concert (where he's made an excuse) and told him in an email that you like him (that he's not replied to) it sounds like you've done your bit, you've made the first move.....it doesn't sound promising to be honest, he's probably not THAT keen, maybe he likes you as a person but doesn't want anything more and doesn't know how to deal with it

Reply 15

hannah_dru

2

Maybe he's keen but scared of commitment.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

MagicNMedicine

well if youve asked him to a concert (where he's made an excuse) and told him in an email that you like him (that he's not replied to) it sounds like you've done your bit, you've made the first move.....it doesn't sound promising to be honest, he's probably not THAT keen, maybe he likes you as a person but doesn't want anything more and doesn't know how to deal with it

well, he told his friend that he likes me but he doesnt know hoe much... :confused:

what's going on in his head?

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