Ways to dump

Sorry fro the bluntness but im a guy and just dont wanna be with my gf anymore as shes basically been muckin me about. Girls i know theres no best way but how can i break it to her gently that i dont wanna be with her anymore?

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Reply 1

Triplet1

the best way is to just tell her face to face

Reply 2

Princess_Peach

Or you can always be a pu.ssy and text or ignore her.

Reply 3

~Sam~

In person. I.e, not via text, phone, or msn!

Reply 4

Nisko

Person to person only I would say.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

but what kind of words so as to let them down easily?!

Reply 6

ForumFreak

Just tell her that you dont think the relationships working out.

Reply 7

devilgirl999

what exactly is it that shes done is there no way of rescuing the relationship?

Reply 8

shadowinthesun98

okay. yes, person-to-person is definately the best route, no question. but on what to say? tell her what you feel and why you feel that way. be honest but not cruel. let her know how you feel without causing her the most pain. honesty is the best way to go. if you can give her solid reasons then she'll understand what you're trying to say and let it go. it'll be sweet if you don't just say "it's not working for me. sorry" make eye contact and be sympathetic, but don't patronize her. she'll respect and be grateful for you being a sweetie when letting her know how you feel. be sweet, but don't be a pushover cause then you might still be stuck in a relationship that you aren't happy with. assert your feelings but don't be harsh.

Reply 9

Reue

Do it by text.... From one of those free texting websites... Infact, get a mate to do it for you by text from one of those free texting websites. Perfect way to end a relationship :biggrin:

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

devilgirl999

what exactly is it that shes done is there no way of rescuing the relationship?

just theres no more physical intimacy, i get rejected when i try to get close to her etc. also i dont really trust her anymore. sad really.

Reply 11

Pay a tramp £5 to pop round and explain things to her. And, if you really don't like her, tell him where she keeps the vodka.

Reply 12

sahsum

Well it sounds like your quite justified in ending the relationship then. Just tell her what you've told us without being nasty about it or anything. Breaking up is never the nicest thing to do but has to be done!! Also yeh make sure you say it face to face. good luck

Reply 13

shadowinthesun98

Anonymous

just theres no more physical intimacy, i get rejected when i try to get close to her etc. also i dont really trust her anymore. sad really.

tell her so! just don't be a jerk about it. :biggrin:

Reply 14

username47781

Least have a chat with her and tell her what the problem is, be honest and see if anything changes first if it doesn't after a while then dump her but do it face to face as others said earlier.