Missed out or can I change that?

In my second year at uni, the course went for a night out. One of the girls there was quite academic and tried to talk to me a lot (she is straight!). I felt bad cos I never really made the effort with her after that and I could tell she wanted to be mates. I was worried about my own social circle (who were not very good friends - judgementalists) would think about me talking to her.

She is quite a shy person and I found that she is on myspace - would it be worth trying to strike a friendship up with her (she is a 2 hour drive away)? I liked her and wished I had the chance to have been friends but we have all graduated now.

Reply 1

username47781

Give it a go what you got to lose.

Reply 2

*Ridwan*

Make friends with her, its never too late and she'll understand you :smile:

Reply 3

unhalfbricking

Carl1982

Give it a go what you got to lose.

^^ agreed

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Just hope she doesn't find it stalkerish looking her up on myspace!

Reply 5

vixky!

^ Just say you found her through someone elses Myspace or something.

Reply 6

she

how can you avoid someone at university because they are academic? Isn't the whole point of going to university to learn out of your own free will??

Reply 7

JimmyJ

she

Isn't the whole point of going to university to learn out of your own free will??

LOL! How ironic. Middle-class subjugation through "education" and debt.

:smile:

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

I see your point, I think they were jealous of her for being clever. She even told me to attend lectures when I told her I struggled hence avoided going - silly I know.