The guy I'm seeing never texts when he's out :(

I miss him so much. Sat at home waiting for him to text and nothing. He always forgets about me when he's with his family or friends. Not even one text to see if I'm ok. Is this fair ??

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Reply 1

bertstare

Hes banging another girl

Reply 2

iamintorture

Original post by bertstare

Hes banging another girl

That's actually what I'm worried about :frown:

Reply 3

Hal.E.Lujah

Original post by iamintorture

That's actually what I'm worried about :frown:

I'm sure he's not. Some people just get into the habit of not looking at their phone when they're out doing things. I know I don't always send messages and I'm defo not cheating :lol:

I'd try not to worry about it.

Reply 4

Skip_Snip

When I'm with friends/bf I hardly ever look at my phone. I'd never cheat, I just can't be bothered texting or social mediaing when I'm socialising :biggrin:

Ah, clinginess.

The most attractive feature to find in a person did you know! Really keeps them hooked!

Reply 7

iamintorture

Original post by Inazuma

Ah, clinginess.

The most attractive feature to find in a person did you know! Really keeps them hooked!

I wouldn't be clingy if he didn't give me a reason to.

Reply 8

ihavemooedtoday

I almost never check my phone when I am with someone else, unless I am expecting a very important email/text from a professor, etc. It's quite rude otherwise.

Even if I do check, I won't reply unless it's urgent. I'd just wait till I'm by myself.

Maybe he also respects his friends and family? :smile:

Reply 9

Zenarthra

Original post by iamintorture

I wouldn't be clingy if he didn't give me a reason to.

What would you rate your looks out of 10?

Reply 10

SarcasticMel

Original post by Inazuma

Ah, clinginess.

The most attractive feature to find in a person did you know! Really keeps them hooked!

I find it cute :biggrin:

Reply 11

CJKay

Original post by iamintorture

I wouldn't be clingy if he didn't give me a reason to.

America wouldn't have dropped nuclear bombs on Japan if Japan didn't give them a reason to.

In short: stop overreacting.

Reply 12

iamintorture

Original post by CJKay

America wouldn't have dropped nuclear bombs on Japan if Japan didn't give them a reason to.

In short: stop overreacting.

I don't get the analogy :frown:

Reply 13

CJKay

Original post by iamintorture

I don't get the analogy :frown:

America dropped nuclear bombs on Japan, wiping out two entire cities, forcing Japan to surrender, despite the fact that they knew they would have to surrender anyway.
Basically, the USA did not act reasonably, and neither are you.

Reply 14

iamintorture

Original post by CJKay

Lol.being clingy is not the same as dropping a nuclear bomb.

Reply 15

CJKay

Original post by iamintorture

Lol.being clingy is not the same as dropping a nuclear bomb.

You've already told me you didn't understand the analogy, so I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you don't actually know what an analogy is.

Reply 16

SarcasticMel

Original post by CJKay

You've already told me you didn't understand the analogy, so I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you don't actually know what an analogy is.

Except maybe she didn't understand the analogy because it was so bad it almost wasn't one?

I mean I for one don't like it because if she had actually spoken to him about it, nagged him for not doing and to do so from now on, that would maybe be like actually dropping a nuclear bomb. She just came onto TSR to whine and ask for advice. Whoop dee doo.

Reply 17

username927016

I wouldn't really text when I'm out either, if you're with family & friends I think it's better to have full concentration on that.

Reply 18

Truflais

He's probably just having fun tbh. I forget to text when I'm out too but I make sure I text them when I'm on way home/home safely. He's out seeing friends and family, don't expect him to be glued to his phone.

Reply 19

Inazuma

Original post by iamintorture

I wouldn't be clingy if he didn't give me a reason to.

What reason though?

Not the sign of a healthy relationship if 1) you feel the need to be so clingy and 2) whatever reason that makes you mistrust him

Does not lead to good things..