My dad got with my mum when my sister was 3, her dad was in the army and he disappeared my sister sat on his knee and said "are you going to be my daddy now?" dad adopted her when she was 7, he's never treated us any differently my mum left when I was 13 she has bipolar disorder, my dad has always been there for her and his grandchildren who he treats equally, How does that make someone a fool or pussy whipped cause they want to be a good person? If my dad didn't step up my sister would have gone into care, Love extends biological bonds why do you think people adopt children?