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Got with a guy in my block...very awkward..

On the first night of Freshers I ended up pulling this guy who lives on my corridor in halls. I was drunk and wouldn't have done so if I'd been sober. We ended up in his bed (!!) but didn't have sex - however, he did finger me and I tossed him off.

That was two nights ago and now I feel SO awkward! I have to see him all the time obviously, and don't know how to act around him. I don't want anything to happen between us but it's so embarrassing knowing that he's not much more than a stranger yet knows me so intimately...

Reply 1

TrentEnd

2

Don't worry, you were drunk and things happen. Forget it

Reply 2

Schroedinger's Pandora

13

Oh dear. I hope you won't be doing that again in a hurry.

I'm afraid the only option, if you want to save face, is to simply be open with him about it and laugh it off.

Reply 3

AudioHound

hmm simaler thing happened with me and it's not been as bad as I thought. I went to a party with 3 of my male friends, ended up getting paraletic and they kindly looked after me for the evening however I got with and went to 2nd base both ways with a random who turned out to be from school and 2 years below! it was laughed about for the bit. We've acknowledged each other with a nod but now just ignore each other. It happens but just be mature and act naturally.

Reply 4

Renal

17

Oh ffs, this happens all the time at uni. It's just one of those things.

Be upfront and open with him or just laugh it off, doesn't really matter and within a few months things will almost invariably be fine.

*Renal has pulled his student daughter and his housemate before.

Reply 5

hixey101

dont worry i pulled (+more) a friend of a friend and we just spoke about it normally afterwards, dont turn it into a big thing when it clearly isnt.

Reply 6

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3

Renal

*Renal has pulled his student daughter and his housemate before.

INCEST!

I always wondered whether that happened at uni, i hope i get a hot mum. :wink:

And yeah, just either laugh it off or carry on like it didn't happen, it's only awkward for as long as you make it awkward.

Reply 7

Renal

17

3232

INCEST!

My brother and sister have just had their two year aniversery - they got together on the second night of freshers! :biggrin:

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

My flatmate kissed me on the lips when we were both drunkk :smile:

Reply 9

Fluent in Lies

2

Option 1: Kill him.
Option 2: Kill yourself
Option 3: Kill everybody in the whole world

Reply 10

Sarky

18

If you choose option number 3, can you do it next week please? I'm looking forward to this weekend.

Reply 11

mtbab

17

Sarky

If you choose option number 3, can you do it next week please? I'm looking forward to this weekend.

hahaha lol!

also OP your a bit quick off the mark aren't you, just laugh it off, or jsu tpretend you dont remember it and say hes making it up lol

Reply 12

Fleece

15

Lmao @ "tossed him off". Great turn of phrase there.

Reply 13

mcmam

2

laugh it off call it life experience.... trust me ive done some pretty crazy stuff when drunk..

Reply 14

Fluent in Lies

2

mcmam

trust me

But you get drunk and do stupid stuff...

Reply 15

Alice 00

This type of thing happens all of the time. It is no big deal.

u have learnt a lesson - don't crap on u own doorstep.

Reply 16

rosetinted

2

It's only embarrassing because you are chosing to make it embarrassing. Act normal and carry on as if it didn't happen and he will heave a sigh of relief and do the same. Soon you go from acting normal to not caring about it any more.

gfggdfsgg

i apologies for him, hes in my halls in is rat arsed atm, jus cum back from rootes K block which involved me getting my head shaved for a dare, nice! lol

Reply 19

puppy

My advice (it's not really advice) is not to do things you can't deal with afterwards. Why you'd be hung up over something so minor, I can't even begin to imagine, but it'd recommend dropping the 12 year old attitude to sex if you want your life to be free of this type of unecessary stress. Or stop 'pulling' and 'tossing off' random people.

Got with a guy in my block...very awkward..

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