The Student Room Group

Player or Not?

Ok this guy I've been seeing for over a week now, I've mentioned him before but I'm so confused.

We'd been chatting over msn until we met. We met in a party, kissed and all that. The next two nights we saw each other again and I ended up giving him head. Another night he came round and I didn't want to do anything so we were just kissing and then he said he's gonna go. I said no don't and so we got closer again and I ended up giving him a handjob. I haven't seen him for the last 4 days, and when I went back home for the weekend he didn't text me once, even though I had texted him. . He said that he was "ill". I was ill too but I could text him!

Anyway when we're on msn he doesn't write to me so I don't write to him either. I said that I'll see you whenever if ever.. and he was like "when I get better".

Is he just using me?
Chances are he got what he wanted so he's using it as an excuse.
Reply 2
Sounds like it.
Reply 3
Yes.
Reply 4
Probably. Not that I've become cynical or anything.
Chances are he realised he wasn't getting anymore so he's trying his luck elsewhere.
Reply 6
grr, why are people like this
Reply 7
Definately...don't waste your time trying to chat with him anymore..
Reply 8
Can I meet up with you? I just want sex too but no strings attached. Let me know, thanks.
Reply 9
Yeah so next time he wants to see me what should I do? he always wants to come to my room, but I want to speak with him. I hardly know much about him since all we do is kiss and get close. I suggested we go out somewhere before but he said he doesn't want people now.
Well don't let him rule you, if you want to go out somewhere tell him and if he just wants to come to your toom, tell him he is not welcome.