The Student Room Group

OK- There's this girl at work... *HELP*

Like I said, there's this girl at work who I really like but before I make a tit of myself and it gets painfully awkward, resulting in me quitting, I'd like to know if you think she likes me before I make a move.

These are some of the things we've done...

- We've argued with each other (although this was like a playful thing)
- we make funny faces at each other
- I did that test which was in a thread on here somewhere - where you do something and see it it gets copied - well she copied me.
- she's always really touchy with me and smiles at me.
- she asked me to chase her round the room and sit by her
- she playfully put ice down my back
- she called me over and hugged me and kissed me on my hand
- she said that she's really gutted i'm leaving her to go to uni
- but whenever I visit she always makes an effort with me
- she also invited me to her party

but I really can't tell if she just wants to be friends or something more - GOD i'm useless at things like this... :frown:

ANY IDEAS that can help a poor guy out - girls can be soo confusing!
Reply 1
God sake, why don't you just ask her out? What do you want her to do? Flap her t*ts in front of you? You've been given enough signs to go forward, you hardly need her to do anything else.
Reply 2
that more signs than most people get! go for it
Reply 3
Are you completely blind? How many signs does she have to give you? Ask her out, but grow some testicles first. :smile:
jesus christ men are bloody stupid sometimes
Reply 5
Let this be a lesson girls, with some men the only way to make it clear is to get your boobs out/jump them im afraid. :smile:
Reply 6
3232
Let this be a lesson girls, with some men the only way to make it clear is to get your boobs out/jump them im afraid. :smile:
Those are the ones to avoid :rofl:
Reply 7
Anonymous
Like I said, there's this girl at work who I really like but before I make a tit of myself and it gets painfully awkward, resulting in me quitting, I'd like to know if you think she likes me before I make a move.

These are some of the things we've done...

- We've argued with each other (although this was like a playful thing)
- we make funny faces at each other
- I did that test which was in a thread on here somewhere - where you do something and see it it gets copied - well she copied me.
- she's always really touchy with me and smiles at me.
- she asked me to chase her round the room and sit by her
- she playfully put ice down my back
- she called me over and hugged me and kissed me on my hand
- she said that she's really gutted i'm leaving her to go to uni
- but whenever I visit she always makes an effort with me
- she also invited me to her party

but I really can't tell if she just wants to be friends or something more - GOD i'm useless at things like this... :frown:

ANY IDEAS that can help a poor guy out - girls can be soo confusing!


She thinks you're gay.
In light of the facts given, I wouldn't, she obviously hates you.
SHE LIKES YOU!

Could it be more obvious!
Reply 10
LadyEnglish
Could it be more obvious!


Yes, with previously mentioned boobs/jumping.
Ask her for a drink
She hates you, but is trying to cover it up.

In fact she may be plotting your demise right now. BE AFRAID.
Reply 13
go for it if you like her, though everything you mentioned could be seen as just friendly banter (i worked in a bar so i wouldn't take the whole putting ice down your back thing as a sign lol cos the gay guys used to do tht to us girls haha), if she's single just ask her out! you obv get on well!!!