Have I ruined our little 'thing'?

Either you've been fake numbered or he has no credit/no battery/hasn't checked his phone. No use losing sleep over it, if it really bugs you, phone him, but don't text him again, no one wants to open their inbox and find like 5 new messages from one person within a week, kind of desperado...Good luck with it xxx

relax, dont send another text, and make a cup of tea. meeting up for a coffee shouldnt scare a guy. just be patient and see what happens

Were you texting him regularly when you asked him for a drink? ie were you having a conversation? Or was it kind of out of the blue?

a coffe doesnt have to mean a date either, if the situation gets awkward say you just felt like company for a daily caffeine fix. either way, there's an easy way to get out of it.

Hehe, i only asked because if it was out of the blue he may not have checked his mobile yet or had time to reply. If you were in a text conversation then the fact he hadn't replied for a day would mean something, as you weren't, theres nothing to worry about. If he IM's you later just ask if he got your message.

He probably wants to go with you, but doesn't want to say yes to soon for fear of appearing desperate.

Hi everyone,

Just need a bit of perspective on this. I had posted on a previous thread about approaching this guy.....

I got his number 2 days ago and texted him last night asking if he would like to meet up for a coffee. I still havent heard anything.... . I asked if he wanted to meet on either Thursday or Friday. I'm just hoping I havent pushed him away and ruined our little 'thing' that we used to have. Maybe he has no credit? Or is he just not interested?

Please help....I'm losing sleep over this

Thanks

P.s. If I texted again, I think he will think I am stalking him That is unless I have the wrong number......Such a cynic me...

i know exactly how you feel.
it sounds hard but give it some time; time is a virtue.
its probably coz he has no credit or something, i doubt hes ignoring you.

just don't text him for a while, wait for him to text you, if he doesnt then perhaps get in touch with him after a few weeks.. just don't push too much now.

What you see is what you get.