Dirty slag

I'm sorry to be such a dirty slag but seriously what do you think my chances are of pulling a guy in his mid 20s? I am a 19 year old girl and I've just always fancied MEN, not boys! My concern is that at my age they might not take me seriously/might only want a quick shag. I am not really a dirty slag (as my post title suggests) I really want a serious long-term relationship with a man. Also, how can I go about meeting a guy of that age who is nice and not a perv? What kind of hang-out spots do they go to?

Apparently we don't count as men. Im sure i speak for all of us 19 year olds out here when i say we mourn the loss of this fine 'dirty slag'.

OK OK I take back what I said about 19 year olds not being 'men'. But, you don't understand! I go to this higher education college (the only place in my whole county that offers higher education apart from lincoln uni) but it's not very popular with the young people, most people there are like 30. So you see, I'm stuck with pretty much no 19 year olds (they've all gone away for uni) and really really old men. I could meet some 19 year olds out of school but they wouldn't be in higher education (there is no higher education near to me apart from my college) and therefore wouldn't have a very good job. I therefore am deciding to target men in their mid 20s because they are not TOO old for me and it is likely that some of them will have higher education qualifications and good jobs.

I'm sorry to be such a dirty slag but seriously what do you think my chances are of pulling a guy in his mid 20s? I am a 19 year old girl and I've just always fancied MEN, not boys! My concern is that at my age they might not take me seriously/might only want a quick shag. I am not really a dirty slag (as my post title suggests) I really want a serious long-term relationship with a man. Also, how can I go about meeting a guy of that age who is nice and not a perv? What kind of hang-out spots do they go to?

having a good job/qualifications isn't everything in life, obviously it helps but I wouldn't use that as a criteria to find a boyfriend, what if he looses his job? becomes redundant? would you still be interested in him? it's better to find a boyfriend on the basis that your physically attracted to him and like his personality than go for his salary

I know that but you don't know my mother...She's always been hellbent on me marrying a doctor or lawyer or something, she would never let me go out with anyone who wasn't rich and professional. I know I sound so stupid but it's how I've been brought up-riches are everything! My mum says that if I had a choice of marrying a rich, horrible man or a poor, nice one then I should always choose the rich, nasty one because I could always cheer myself up by going shopping. She says this kind of thing to me almost everyday, no wonder I've never had a boyfriend, my priorities are all messed up and I know they are but I can't help it anymore...