breaking friendship off

hey

my friend has been a little depressed lately because of some apperance issues or some crap. the guy is an embrassment to be with, trust me.

anywhoo, he is boring me. how can i break the friendship off without causing a problem? i was thinking of just ignoring his messages.

x

Reply 1

username47781

20

SO you are breaking off the friendship because he is having problems, some friend you are, first you dump a guy because he couldn't give you head properly now this, whatever next.

Reply 2

Purple

18

You are a great friend.

Reply 3

Eb

1

Ergh.
Poor guy; wear a warnjing telling people what kind of 'friend' you are.
No wonder people think you need shopoting alice

Reply 4

Alice 00

OP

Carl1982

SO you are breaking off the friendship because he is having problems, some friend you are, first you dump a guy because he couldn't give you head properly now this, whatever next.

please stop picking on me Carl

x

Reply 5

username47781

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Alice 00

please stop picking on me Carl

x

Well stop posting heartless rubbish like this then, which is leaving yourself open to attack, no one wants to know about your life, i really hope your not taking up a career as a counsellor.

Reply 6

Alice 00

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kirstinx

You are a great friend.

thanx babe, so what advice with losing the baggage?

x

Reply 7

britishseapower

14

wouldn't happen to be the bald guy would it?

Reply 8

username47781

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Alice 00

thanx babe, so what advice with losing the baggage?

x

I think she was being sarcastic.

Reply 9

lil_sweetie

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Tell him he's an embarrassment to be with, you can't stand to be seen with him, he bores you and he's totally cramping your style by being the way he is.

I mean it's not like by being his friend you have to actually be nice or anything...that would just be crazy.

Reply 10

Alice 00

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lil_sweetie

Tell him he's an embarrassment to be with, you can't stand to be seen with him, he bores you and he's totally cramping your style by being the way he is.

I mean it's not like by being his friend you have to actually be nice or anything...that would just be crazy.

i think u are being sarcastic but just in case i have find someone who sympathesises with my predicament, when should i tell him and how? i hate confrontations, i would rather just hide from him. won't that work?

Reply 11

username47781

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Alice 00

i have find someone who sympathesises with my predicament

I think you mind most people on this board have lost all sympathy for you.

Reply 12

tari :)

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Alice 00

hey

my friend has been a little depressed lately because of some apperance issues or some crap. the guy is an embrassment to be with, trust me.

anywhoo, he is boring me. how can i break the friendship off without causing a problem? i was thinking of just ignoring his messages.

x

Wow, I had a friend like you.
I was always there for him but the one time I needed him, he was a right prick.
Think he'd actually be better off without you. So I guess you're both happy.

I'm sorry for being harsh but you don't exactly not deserve it.

Reply 13

lil_sweetie

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Alice 00

i think u are being sarcastic but just in case i have find someone who sympathesises with my predicament, when should i tell him and how? i hate confrontations, i would rather just hide from him. won't that work?

Yes, I am being sarcastic. As are most on this thread.

No, that won't work.

You say he's depressed, right? Well how about, instead of ditching him, try and help him, find out exactly what the problem is? Come on, if it were you, would you want your friends to ditch you because you were boring them, or would you rely on them for support?

Reply 14

Alice 00

OP

lil_sweetie

Yes, I am being sarcastic. As are most on this thread.

No, that won't work.

You say he's depressed, right? Well how about, instead of ditching him, try and help him, find out exactly what the problem is? Come on, if it were you, would you want your friends to ditch you because you were boring them, or would you rely on them for support?

most of the people on this site are hypocrites. In a previous thread i asked for advice and only found mockery of my friend. The very same people that laughed at my friend earlier are now criticising me, when actually i simply don't feel worthy to be his friend because i don't know how to help him...but i did try!!! :frown:

Reply 15

username47781

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Alice 00

most of the people on this site are hypocrites. In a previous thread i asked for advice and only found mockery of my friend. The very same people that laughed at my friend earlier are now criticising me, when actually i simply don't feel worthy to be his friend because i don't know how to help him...but i did try!!! :frown:

oh booohoo poor little alice, don't cry for me, well if you think every person is a hypocrite here why did you bother joining to start so much crap here then, what did you expect.

Reply 16

a_t

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Carl1982

oh booohoo poor little alice, don't cry for me, well if you think every person is a hypocrite here why did you bother joining to start so much crap here then, what did you expect.