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Craving to be loved

Before I started uni, I always wondered what it would be like to have a girlfriend/be loved. I suppose everyone wonders what this is like anyway.

Since uni, I've liked girls, some of which nothing would happen with due to their own situation or culture/family (that one always ruins things), and I've arguably been liked. Never had a girlfriend yet though.

However, a few weeks ago I had a dream about having a girlfriend. Strange I know, but I do have strange dreams. Since then, I've longed for one or to at least have any girls on my course (I do an IT course so there's very few). Hell, it seems like I have an attraction to any girl I talk to in the SU, even if I don't know her name/course! :eek: To top of it off, my horoscope says I will have "love at first sight". What's the point in that if it's just one way though. I don't pay much attention to horoscopes and I was just browsing through a mag and came to the horoscopes section so decided to read it. My horoscopes do usually sum up my life quite well though.

Has anyone here experienced anything similar? Everytime I think of it/this, it's like a constant worry - but not one I can't handle.
Well to be honest you will probably end up finding a girlfriend when you are least thinking about it.
Reply 2
What?
Anonymous
Before I started uni, I always wondered what it would be like to have a girlfriend/be loved. I suppose everyone wonders what this is like anyway.

Since uni, I've liked girls, some of which nothing would happen with due to their own situation or culture/family (that one always ruins things), and I've arguably been liked. Never had a girlfriend yet though.

However, a few weeks ago I had a dream about having a girlfriend. Strange I know, but I do have strange dreams. Since then, I've longed for one or to at least have any girls on my course (I do an IT course so there's very few). Hell, it seems like I have an attraction to any girl I talk to in the SU, even if I don't know her name/course! :eek: To top of it off, my horoscope says I will have "love at first sight". What's the point in that if it's just one way though. I don't pay much attention to horoscopes and I was just browsing through a mag and came to the horoscopes section so decided to read it. My horoscopes do usually sum up my life quite well though.

Has anyone here experienced anything similar? Everytime I think of it/this, it's like a constant worry - but not one I can't handle.


Dont worry about it..things come in their own time (i know its clique but its true)...I'm in a creative writing course and there are very few guys!

At some point, everyone just wants to be loved/appreciated/cared for by another human being :smile: Dont feel weird about it. Just put yourself out there and meet people make friendships...I think (this is a personal observation) that some of the best romantic realtionships stem from great friendships!
Reply 4
puppy
What?


He's got a case of blue balls.
Reply 5
Awh :hugs:

Don't worry. It'll happen, when you least expect it
Reply 6
Carl1982
Well to be honest you will probably end up finding a girlfriend when you are least thinking about it.


Spot on, the second you let your guard down and think finding a girlfriend is totally hopeless is exactly when it happens. So just sit back, enjoy life and let love find you.
Or go to a club and talk 2 random girls you like the look and sound of,you;ll be pleasantly suprised.
cullmac
Spot on, the second you let your guard down and think finding a girlfriend is totally hopeless is exactly when it happens. So just sit back, enjoy life and let love find you.


but I bet all these lonely whingers that frequent TSR telling us how bad their lives are because they are single and so on spend their whole lives "not expecting it", and it never happens...