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What to say to a girl in a club...

Right before you all jump to conclusions I have no problem talking to girls and have had girlfriends in the past etc, so this isn't another "omg I can't open my mouth to a girl" thread.

I was just wondering (in a girls opinion) what you feel is the best way to be approached on a club dancefloor?

Would the best way be saying something like this? "Hi, my name's anon what's yours? are you in the Uni?"

Would you like a dance first and then be asked or just randomly asked?

I'm having an argument with a friend over this, hence the point of this post, but if anyone would like to give their opinions or thoughts on the matter we would be interested.

:tsr2:

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Reply 1
GET YOUR TITS OUT FOR THE LAAAAAAAADS

Or if you are within 2 feet of them "Can I buy you a drink?"
Reply 2
Its a club, dont try and make conversation on a club dance floor unles you both enjoy having people shouting in your ear just to be heard. Dance on the dance floor, talk off of it.
Reply 3
The_Bear
Or if you are within 2 feet of them "Can I buy you a drink?"


Or if you're really hot/homeless, "Can you buy me a drink?".
Reply 4
Get them a drink and compliment them... If you're after what I think you are
Reply 5
I say dance 1st, its what h dance floor is there for, obv its different if your at the bar but if you are on the dance floor i wouldn't try to talk. Have a dance then motion to gt a drink, if she follows buy her a drink and then u can chat.
Ron Stoppable
Anything interesting.

You: "Wow, look at that fight!"
Her: "Where?" [turns]
You: [kiss] "You missed it. But I'll let you buy me something to make up for you being slow."


oh dear.
Reply 7
No words, just actions. :wink::wink::wink:
Reply 8
Ron Stoppable
Anything interesting.

You: "Wow, look at that fight!"
Her: "Where?" [turns]
You: [kiss] "You missed it. But I'll let you buy me something to make up for you being slow."

Nice way to get a slap :wink:
Reply 9
Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

Can I buy you a drink or would you prefer the money?

Those usually work...
Reply 10
Anonymous
Right before you all jump to conclusions I have no problem talking to girls and have had girlfriends in the past etc, so this isn't another "omg I can't open my mouth to a girl" thread.

I was just wondering (in a girls opinion) what you feel is the best way to be approached on a club dancefloor?

Would the best way be saying something like this? "Hi, my name's anon what's yours? are you in the Uni?"

Would you like a dance first and then be asked or just randomly asked?

I'm having an argument with a friend over this, hence the point of this post, but if anyone would like to give their opinions or thoughts on the matter we would be interested.

:tsr2:


i'd imagine you don't start talking initially, you just kinda start dancing with em and then talk while you dance; eg "you dance good" or "quality tune" or something like that..

hah, i did not just say quality tune.
Reply 11
Jim-ie
Nice way to get a slap :wink:


:rofl: my mate got slapped last night, was the funniest thing I've seen for years :biggrin:
Reply 12
Get your rat out

Failing that the old "I bet you I can kiss you without touching your lips, shut your eyes" (Kiss her) "Sorry I guess you win"
start dancing wiv her then introduce urself after the song, buy her a drink
Reply 14
OMFG pickup lines are GAY and they only work with girls who are either young or dont have much experience hahahahha... If you want some real hotties you gotta think of something better man... GET REAL buddy

and DONT buy her a drink

just a simple introduction of hey wassap my name is blah and i'm from blah usually WORKS fine man... then dance for a few minutes (and BE GOOD at dancing lol) and then take her OUTSIDE the club to continue the conversation.
Suprised you can say anything in a club really, but 9 times out of 10 a guy will say to a girl wanna go back to mine for some aerobics :biggrin:
Reply 16
Doesn't matter what you say. It makes me laugh when i think of the weird and random stuff i've said when i first start talking to a girl.

It's all about how you say it.
Reply 17
JKing84
Get your rat out


Your... rat?
Reply 18
Zafda
i'd imagine you don't start talking initially, you just kinda start dancing with em and then talk while you dance; eg "you dance good" or "quality tune" or something like that..

hah, i did not just say quality tune.


Are we at a slack-jawed-yokel club in this situation? :p:
Reply 19
LibertineNorth
Your... rat?


^o) it doesnt take a genious to work that one out ^o)