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Blushing

I'm a regular customer at a certain store and there is a particular girl who works there and I fancy her (thats not why I go there, its really not) but everytime she serves me or if I'm approaching the counter and realise she is going to serve me, I go bright red and its really annoying :redface: I'm not normally like that, I think its because I told my mate that I liked her when we were in there once and I'm pretty sure she might have heard me or at least had an idea that I was talking about her. I really don't know what advice to expect from this as its pretty trivial...:confused:
Reply 1
personally mate, id either pluck up some courage, and try and take it further, or just drop it, and treat her as another girl - easier said than done though.

Personally, i find that having a job where I have to speak a lot gives me a lot of confidence and then being able to just chat freely comes naturally. I have to admit, only reason im posting this is because iv been in these situations before, and have found that talking a lot to a wider range of people has made it easier in these situations to be myself, smile, and just talk normally.
also, i find a sugar rush also helps to boost conversation, as i find it easier to get the words out.

erm so overall probably rubbish advice, but there you go, sorry mate :smile:

Edit: im sure you could stand a chance if you tried, and she was available and up for something, as long as its not a weird shop, like for dildos for the modern man... she might find that a tad offputting for someone who she might consider as a potential partner...
to be honest I've given up on the idea of getting with her as this has been going on for well over a year and I've just accepted I don't have the bottle to further things but I like that shop so it makes it awkward for me when I'm in there, its no big deal or anything, just wish I wasn't a clumsy fool everytime she serves me