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Guy trouble

First off im a guy [bisexual], started college recently, meet this really nice guy but he is straight [arent they all] but i was still friendly to him and was starting to make friends with him, or so i thought. Then today hes in one of my lessons him and his 2 friends start taking the piss asking me if i fancy them all, just acting like jerks. It was really rude and offensive and i felt so upset and annoyed, as they all think that i fancy them all, when that was the complete opposite of what i was trying to do, we talked about football ffs.

I knew this would happen, and i dont know how to react to this, shall i just give up all hope of making friends with other males without a sexual relationship or tell him straight i dont fancy him and he was out of order to me. I still really like him and probably do fancy him but if he is straight then its end of as far as im concerned, i was making a concious effort not to come across to forward, maybe this is were i went wrong, ive only sat next to him for 2 lessons gawd.

Thanks. Any comments are appreciated.
Reply 1
Anonymous
First off im a guy [bisexual], started college recently, meet this really nice guy but he is straight [arent they all] but i was still friendly to him and was starting to make friends with him, or so i thought. Then today hes in one of my lessons him and his 2 friends start taking the piss asking me if i fancy them all, just acting like jerks. It was really rude and offensive and i felt so upset and annoyed, as they all think that i fancy them all, when that was the complete opposite of what i was trying to do, we talked about football ffs.

I knew this would happen, and i dont know how to react to this, shall i just give up all hope of making friends with other males without a sexual relationship or tell him straight i dont fancy him and he was out of order to me. I still really like him and probably do fancy him but if he is straight then its end of as far as im concerned, i was making a concious effort not to come across to forward, maybe this is were i went wrong, ive only sat next to him for 2 lessons gawd.

Thanks. Any comments are appreciated.


Don't just give up hope of making friends. Tut.
However. he is straight and there are lots more fit fishies in the sea.
Just back off a bit. You'll find someone better :p:

You won't notice anyone else if your hung up on this one :p:
Reply 2
Thanks, the main reason why im upset is that i wasnt trying to flirt or be forward with him, i was just trying to be me and its ended up like this. After college he was walking on his own down to the bus station and i waved to him and he gave me a thumbs up back which made me feel a little better. Im just trying to get as many more male friends as possible, i have too many female friends tbh, and as for other fishes in the sea, there is this other guy, sort of same situation but we actually get on as friends [hes straight] so all hope isnt lost, I guess im just a bit upset because im not used to putting myself up for rejection and its very hard falling for people who will never like you in that way. So i counter act this feeling by just trying to befriend him and this happened.
Im being way too dramatic arent i? xx
Reply 3
Anonymous
Thanks, the main reason why im upset is that i wasnt trying to flirt or be forward with him, i was just trying to be me and its ended up like this. After college he was walking on his own down to the bus station and i waved to him and he gave me a thumbs up back which made me feel a little better. Im just trying to get as many more male friends as possible, i have too many female friends tbh, and as for other fishes in the sea, there is this other guy, sort of same situation but we actually get on as friends [hes straight] so all hope isnt lost, I guess im just a bit upset because im not used to putting myself up for rejection and its very hard falling for people who will never like you in that way. So i counter act this feeling by just trying to befriend him and this happened.
Im being way too dramatic arent i? xx

Nah, not atal, some guys, fit ones especially can be so up there own arses.
Don't make friends with guys because you feel you need to, they should be lucky to make friends with you. And how can you have too many female friends? Do what you want, not what you think you should do
Reply 4
It's no big deal.
Reply 5
Yea i guess i DO want more male friends tbh. So im making an effort and i have a minor setback, actually who does care? This is stupid, the only reason im holding onto this is because i like him but if he is going to assume im gonna jump on him everytime i go near the stupid guy whats the point. CLOSURE!

P.s VERY VERY! up their own arses. So much so, they might start liking the feeling and turn gay afterall.
Reply 6
Anonymous
Yea i guess i DO want more male friends tbh. So im making an effort and i have a minor setback, actually who does care? This is stupid, the only reason im holding onto this is because i like him but if he is going to assume im gonna jump on him everytime i go near the stupid guy whats the point. CLOSURE!
P.s VERY VERY! up their own arses. So much so, they might start liking the feeling and turn gay afterall.


There you go :cool:
Anonymous

P.s VERY VERY! up their own arses. So much so, they might start liking the feeling and turn gay afterall.


and .. don't hold your breath :p: