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A girl

Being a totally anti-social i struggle to understand how people's (especially girl's) minds work. There's a girl I like, she wanted me to go around to her's last night to watch a film, but it was my friends birthday so I had to go to the pub with him, she ended up watching a film on her own.

Today i suggested we go to the cinema to see a film , she said fine, but wanted other people to come along aswell. Have I misinterpreted the signals or is it a normal thing?
Reply 1
No. perhaps she's not sure if you like her or not, and therefore wanted other people there.
Or... did you tell her why you didn't go round for the film ? If not she's probably bringing other people to keep you on your toes :coo:
Aww no, you turned her down :frown:. She probably felt rejected, you've blown it now :frown:
Reply 3
It sounds like she could be a bit mad at you as well for not seeing her the other night, which might be when you said lets go to the cinema she wnated other people around because when youve got just 2 people together and one is a bit mad or tense it can be a bit bad. Maybe you should try asking her to come round yours in a couple of days one night to watch a film and just start over again.
Reply 4
How old is this girl? She probably feels more comfortable if you go out together with a group of friends. I wouldnt worry about it mate. Cant imagine she would invite a group of friends to watch a dvd in her room so I dont think anythings changed because you went out for your mates b'day and if it did is this the type of girlfriend you want. Maybe she could turn out to be a bit unreasonable, possesive possibly. Anyway a little off the point, dont worry your probably reading too much into it and after the cinema it will be back to hers for a private viewing if you know what I mean. :wink:
Good luck
Reply 5
JKing84
How old is this girl?


Why does that matter?
Reply 6
JKing84
How old is this girl?

She's 18

JKing84
Maybe she could turn out to be a bit unreasonable, possesive possibly.


I don't think I'd mind a girl to be possessive.
Reply 7
Man With No Name
Why does that matter?


Because when I was younger girls always want to go out places with their mates in tow. Im guessing though at 18 this might not be the case.
Reply 8
Anonymous
I don't think I'd mind a girl to be possessive.


I think you might change your mind very quickly if she was. You dont want to be suffocated by any woman.
Reply 9
Don't they say that you get on better with girls who are most like your mother? Well my mum is quite controlling.
Reply 10
They say that but I refuse to admit I want to date my mother mark 2. :biggrin: