A girl

Being a totally anti-social i struggle to understand how people's (especially girl's) minds work. There's a girl I like, she wanted me to go around to her's last night to watch a film, but it was my friends birthday so I had to go to the pub with him, she ended up watching a film on her own.

Today i suggested we go to the cinema to see a film , she said fine, but wanted other people to come along aswell. Have I misinterpreted the signals or is it a normal thing?

Reply 1

No. perhaps she's not sure if you like her or not, and therefore wanted other people there.
Or... did you tell her why you didn't go round for the film ? If not she's probably bringing other people to keep you on your toes :coo:

Reply 2

Toy Soldier

Aww no, you turned her down :frown:

. She probably felt rejected, you've blown it now :frown:

Reply 3

toffee2

It sounds like she could be a bit mad at you as well for not seeing her the other night, which might be when you said lets go to the cinema she wnated other people around because when youve got just 2 people together and one is a bit mad or tense it can be a bit bad. Maybe you should try asking her to come round yours in a couple of days one night to watch a film and just start over again.

Reply 4

JKing84

How old is this girl? She probably feels more comfortable if you go out together with a group of friends. I wouldnt worry about it mate. Cant imagine she would invite a group of friends to watch a dvd in her room so I dont think anythings changed because you went out for your mates b'day and if it did is this the type of girlfriend you want. Maybe she could turn out to be a bit unreasonable, possesive possibly. Anyway a little off the point, dont worry your probably reading too much into it and after the cinema it will be back to hers for a private viewing if you know what I mean. :wink: