Body size (female opinions please).

I've always been a sporty/atheltic type, started going to the gym a lot more recently and should be changing my body shape quite a bit in the next months as I start a new training program.

I was just wondering how 'big' girls like guys to be?

I can't see the appeal of the "meat-head" look, with no neck and bulging muscles. I'll just be trying to gain a bit of body-mass and improve muscle definition.

Just thinking about this, I'm not gyming solely to improve my appearance, it's a life-style change to improve my overall health and admittedly my self-esteem. I'm not getting 'buff' just to get more attention from females :wink:

Anyway, I'll let TSR masses speak now.

Reply 1

Eb

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Guys don't have as much pressure as girls.
Skinny can be cute rather than puney
big can be erm nice and buff i guess

to me personally it doesn't matter atal.
I am a full on personality person, but yeah, im a weirdo :p:

Reply 2

Toy Soldier

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You want muscle mass proportionate to your size/build, and decent muscle definition without taking it too far (i.e. you need SOME body fat, or you'll look like an anatomy drawing and all veins).

I'm not female, though. Sorry. :biggrin:

Reply 3

anjurdsg

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President Jesus

Guys don't have as much pressure as girls.
Skinny can be cute rather than puney
big can be erm nice and buff i guess

to me personally it doesn't matter atal.
I am a full on personality person, but yeah, im a weirdo :p:

you're no weirdo

i like girls who go for guys for personality :hugs:

i knew some girls who went/go for guys just because they look cute... and i think its kinda weird.... but they are under my 'slut' list any way... NOT that i'm saying all such girls are sluts.... but i dont find them attractive for some reason :confused:

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Toy Soldier

You want muscle mass proportionate to your size/build, and decent muscle definition without taking it too far (i.e. you need SOME body fat, or you'll look like an anatomy drawing and all veins).

I'm not female, though. Sorry. :biggrin:

That's what I'm going for, and your opinion was constructive, and so valid even though you're not a girl! :p:

Reply 5

Eb

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anjurdsg

you're no weirdo

i like girls who go for guys for personality :hugs:

i knew some girls who went/go for guys just because they look cute... and i think its kinda weird.... but they are under my 'slut' list any way... NOT that i'm saying all such girls are sluts.... but i dont find them attractive for some reason :confused:

I don't have a type atal. People i find attractive....
make me smile

Reply 6

puppy

Make yourself look like a rugby player- toned, buff but also kind of athletic. Perfect.

Reply 7

MagicNMedicine

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maybe, but you'll be better off going for the powerful and athletic appearance of a rugby league centre/back rower than a union front rower with a flabby belly and cauliflower ears