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International Student - Not attractive enough?
Hi,
I am here in university since few weeks now and still alone. I have seen people here getting gals on the first day....but me....is it because of me international students or what....what shd i do...i dont want to spend my year .......living alone.....its enough now...me virgin....never kissed anyone....although i asked some of gals in party to have drink with me or dance but they declined....i am feeling terrible
I am here in university since few weeks now and still alone. I have seen people here getting gals on the first day....but me....is it because of me international students or what....what shd i do...i dont want to spend my year .......living alone.....its enough now...me virgin....never kissed anyone....although i asked some of gals in party to have drink with me or dance but they declined....i am feeling terrible
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jimfrl
Hi,
I am here in university since few weeks now and still alone. I have seen people here getting gals on the first day....but me....is it because of me international students or what....what shd i do...i dont want to spend my year .......living alone.....its enough now...me virgin....never kissed anyone....although i asked some of gals in party to have drink with me or dance but they declined....i am feeling terrible
I am here in university since few weeks now and still alone. I have seen people here getting gals on the first day....but me....is it because of me international students or what....what shd i do...i dont want to spend my year .......living alone.....its enough now...me virgin....never kissed anyone....although i asked some of gals in party to have drink with me or dance but they declined....i am feeling terrible
It's because of the anti-foreigner mindset of British people. If you look different, talk different or act different, prepare yourself for negative discrimination. Not very much you can do about it. (If you talk like that in real life it won't help.)
post a picture of urself, im sure ur not bad at all, probably just what u say which is the problem
Just give it time and you'll soon fit in. It's only early days. In the meantime try getting involved with societies or clubs. University life can sometimes become hard and stressful especially with the workload and it takes time for everyone to adjust. Some people can fit in pretty much really quickly, however some, it can take up to weeks.
Hang in there, it will get better. Keep saying talking to people and start conversations with people in your tutorials. You'll have to get to know them anyway when you have to work in groups at Uni.
Hang in there, it will get better. Keep saying talking to people and start conversations with people in your tutorials. You'll have to get to know them anyway when you have to work in groups at Uni.
Convalescent
It's because of the anti-foreigner mindset of British people. If you look different, talk different or act different, prepare yourself for negative discrimination. Not very much you can do about it. (If you talk like that in real life it won't help.)
Whats the rush to get a girlfriend anyway? Im sure you'll meet someone when the time is right.
OK man, you need to pick yourself up, and realise that women are not the be-all and end all of life. Once you realise this, you can free yourself of your desperation... and actually interact with girls in a normal, fun, friendly way. You should introduce yourself to people you meet in your corridor and your halls, be friendly... not just to the hot girls, but to everyone.
Women do not like desperate guys - they like guys who are confident in themselves, are fun, friendly, and not afraid to say what they think from time to time.
Women do not like desperate guys - they like guys who are confident in themselves, are fun, friendly, and not afraid to say what they think from time to time.
This guy is DEFINITELY not from the USA. Lmao, he lies.
Convalescent
It's because of the anti-foreigner mindset of British people. If you look different, talk different or act different, prepare yourself for negative discrimination. Not very much you can do about it. (If you talk like that in real life it won't help.)
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I'm black, Nigerian, and from the US...no lack of attention from British men whatsoever 
Just be more flirtatious.
Just be more flirtatious.
Don't worry it'll come. I talk to everyone and make loads of friends too. I'm comfortable with anyone.
For some reason, not that many gal pals but who cares. I'm enjoying myself.
For some reason, not that many gal pals but who cares. I'm enjoying myself.
Convalescent
It's because of the anti-foreigner mindset of British people. If you look different, talk different or act different, prepare yourself for negative discrimination. Not very much you can do about it. (If you talk like that in real life it won't help.)
That's really not true, you know.
I belive that is rubbish when everyone is so PC nowadays
That means that people don't have an anti-foreigner mindset? I would say that strict adherence to political correctness promotes aggravation towards foreigners.
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