I broke up with my ex officially nearly two years ago, and before that we were seperated. It was my decision and he took it pretty badly, but i said that if we could both handle it we could be friends. He lives around 3 hours from my home and 5 hours from my uni so it wasn't too much of an issue about us bumping into each other.
Initially he would text a lot which i could handle. But then i told him to stop. It got worse with him calling all the time, texting maybe 10 times a day (even when there was no response). Then the weird stuff started. Sending me pornographic images of women telling me what he was going to do with them, which i didn't give a flying so and so about. Sending me emails saying he was going to kill himself. After about six months i got fed up of the whole thing (he wasn't doing it constantly just every few weeks or so) and told him that i'd met someone else. I got the "how long have you been shagging around behind my back for?!?"
Anyway....i left him to it, and he continues to bug me every few months. Day before yesterday he texts saying he wants to talk, i ignore it. I don't want him knowing i have the same number (need to keep it for private reasons). Then he texts again telling me he's met some other woman (like a give a ****). That was the last straw and my mum ended up phoning him telling him if he doesn't stop then we'll go to the police. His reaction? "I don't know what her problem is and i'm not happy with this!" Bloody delusional idiot.
I have all the evidence, but it isn't constant he's not that stupid. Do i have grounds to go to the police? The phone network won't block him and i am getting another number so he can't contact me via that but he's very clever and has found other ways of getting in touch with me.
Any advice appreciated, apologies for long thread.