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No Condom (girls especially)

Girls,

It strikes me as strange that most females in which I have encountered are willing to use a condom while having penetrative sex, but don’t give wearing a condom when giving their partner oral sex.

Always wondered why this was, surely you can still get a nasty infection right?

Secondly, to add insult to injury the same girls who claim that they practice unprotected oral sex due to the minimised chance of infection in comparison to penetrative sex indulge in swallowing their partner’s ejaculation?

Wouldn't swallowing ones ejaculation increase the probability of getting an infection?

Girls are very strange.

Also girls whom don’t wear condoms during penetrative sex are you not worried about getting an STD, surely the pill does not protect you against STDS!
And why would you want your partners ejaculation in you anyways, surely it will result in a long clean up as it trickles out your sex organ for hours on end!

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Reply 1
pcWizz
Girls,

It strikes me as strange that most females in which I have encountered are willing to use a condom while having penetrative sex, but don’t give wearing a condom when giving their partner oral sex.

Always wondered why this was, surely you can still get a nasty infection right?

Secondly, to add insult to injury the same girls who claim that they practice unprotected oral sex due to the minimised chance of infection in comparison to penetrative sex indulge in swallowing their partner’s ejaculation?

Wouldn't swallowing ones ejaculation increase the probability of getting an infection?

Girls are very strange.

Also girls whom don’t wear condoms during penetrative sex are you not worried about getting an STD, surely the pill does not protect you against STDS!
And why would you want your partners ejaculation in you anyways, surely it will result in a long clean up as it trickles out your sex organ for hours on end!


You appear to insinuate that protected sex is not a mutual responsibility between partners, and merely the girl's problem. Oh, and furthermore, usually it's not the girl who wears the condom. :wink:
foxo
You appear to insinuate that protected sex is not a mutual responsibility between partners, and merely the girl's problem.


Probably caught something and is looking for someone to blame
Reply 3
You seem to think that the use of contraceptive is only the girl's problem. Don't guys get STD too? :rolleyes:
Reply 4
foxo
You appear to insinuate that protected sex is not a mutual responsibility between partners, and merely the girl's problem.


:yy:

Also to the OP- not all girls are strange, you're generalising a bit there.
Reply 5
foxo
You appear to insinuate that protected sex is not a mutual responsibility between partners, and merely the girl's problem. Oh, and furthermore, usually it's not the girl who wears the condom. :wink:


It would appear that way.

As a guy I already understand why males may conduct in unprotected sex!

Just wanted a females view point.
When giving someone (male) oral sex, I think when girls don't encourage their partner to wear a condom it's because we imagine it would take away most of the sensation and make the whole thing pretty pointless for him. If you're doing that in place of penetrative sex then I think it's a more difficult topic to raise, too. Tricky, especially as I don't think many blokes use a dental dam when they go down on their partners so both parties are chancing it a bit, if you get what I mean?A lso, it's not very widely discussed that you can actually catch herpes, gonorrhea (Sp.?) HIV and syphillus from going down on someone who's infected.
Reply 7
Any Colour You Like
When giving someone (male) oral sex, I think when girls don't encourage their partner to wear a condom it's because we imagine it would take away most of the sensation and make the whole thing pretty pointless for him. If you're doing that in place of penetrative sex then I think it's a more difficult topic to raise, too. Tricky, especially as I don't think many blokes use a dental dam when they go down on their partners so both parties are chancing it a bit, if you get what I mean?A lso, it's not very widely discussed that you can actually catch herpes, gonorrhea (Sp.?) HIV and syphillus from going down on someone who's infected.



yeah I agree.

But surely protection should come before sensitivity as far as oral is concerned?
Depends who the sex is with.

Penetrative sex carries the risk of pregnancy as well as STDs so a condom is a must.

Oral sex, people are more prepared to do unprotected if they have reasonable belief that the partner is free of STIs anyway.

eg. I would have unprotected oral sex with a regular boyfriend who I trust is clean of STIs, but a casual partner I would not have unprotected oral sex with.

It's also a question of minimising risk. Eg. someone you're not sure about you might be prepared to have oral sex with unprotected for a bit, but you won't let them ejaculate in your mouth... they're just decisions you make depending on he person.
Condoms are covered in gross smellin icky lube. No body wants to suck that!
oral is disgusting anyway with or without a condom
wirbelsturm
oral is disgusting anyway with or without a condom


thats your opinion and thankfully one not held by many people.

Oral sex without a condom is fairly low risk your saliva is pretty good at killing many things and your stomach acids can potentially kill the HIV virus. THere is a risk but nothing compared to penetratrive vaginal and anal sex.

Also what about guys going down on girls?
Anonymous
Condoms are covered in gross smellin icky lube. No body wants to suck that!


You can get flavoured ones.
pcWizz
Girls,

Always wondered why this was, surely you can still get a nasty infection right?
Wouldn't swallowing ones ejaculation increase the probability of getting an infection? !


Yes but it's likely to be in the mouth or throat, so is less likely to affect sex organs causing infertility, unlike if an infection was in the genitourinary tract.

pcWizz

Girls are very strange.

Also girls whom don’t wear condoms during penetrative sex are you not worried about getting an STD, surely the pill does not protect you against STDS!
And why would you want your partners ejaculation in you anyways, surely it will result in a long clean up as it trickles out your sex organ for hours on end!


It is mostly boys who try to get out of using a condom, so it's not just the girls who are strange.
Girls do worry.
I suppose it's just natural for a guy to ejaculate into a girl, that's the way 'nature intended' etc!
Cadre_Of_Storms
thats your opinion and thankfully one not held by many people.

Oral sex without a condom is fairly low risk your saliva is pretty good at killing many things and your stomach acids can potentially kill the HIV virus. THere is a risk but nothing compared to penetratrive vaginal and anal sex.

Also what about guys going down on girls?


That's a really naive statement to make- the risk is still there, relying on your stomach acid or salivia to kill it is ridiculous! What if you were to have a mouth ulcer coming up, or a small cut in your mouth. Frankly, i wouldn't take the risk and i certainly wouldn't advise other people to.
Reply 15
pcWizz
And why would you want your partners ejaculation in you anyways, surely it will result in a long clean up as it trickles out your sex organ for hours on end!


:confused: how? what?? why??? How much cum do you produce? It's a quick clean up and only takes a few minutes to "trickle out" .. that's my experience anyway :rolleyes:
Reply 16
Ancient Philosopher once say: Girl who swallow semen, don't become pregnant.
Flavoured ones are mildly entertaining. The flavour doesn't last long though.

Take your pick, really. Salty (without) or sweet (flavoured). Lol!
Actually I have insisted that my boyfriend wears a condom at all times. Not all girls are the same you know.