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My boyfriend is out for a bit so I decided to clean his room to be nice while he is gone. Anyway, my morbid curiosity ended in my looking in his bedside drawer. Nothing unusual in there at first, until I saw a bag screwed up in the corner, in which I found about 6 condoms. We haven't used condoms for over 6 months and these aren't the same ones we used back at the beginning (different brand). I'm panicking now, I'm sure there's a rational explanation and I can't exactly confront him about it because I was obviously snooping. What can I do?!
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Like you said, there will be a rational explanation, maybe they are really old and he forgot about them? This will sound bad but if you really feel like you cannot confront him... maybe count how many condoms there are and at a later date (month or so) check again?
In all honesty I think you should just confront him, either way your in the wrong for snooping but not knowing will be too much and cause you to snoop even more.
In all honesty I think you should just confront him, either way your in the wrong for snooping but not knowing will be too much and cause you to snoop even more.
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Maybe he keeps them handy just in case there is a problem with the other form of contraception you use?
You sound extremely paranoid. Stop going through your boyfriend's drawers and snooping around his room, it's an invasion of his privacy and it makes it look like you don't trust him.
You sound extremely paranoid. Stop going through your boyfriend's drawers and snooping around his room, it's an invasion of his privacy and it makes it look like you don't trust him.
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Expiry 2017...doesnt mean anything to me.
I've checked again, there's 8 condoms and 2 empty wrappers. Wtf, who keeps condom wrappers?! I'm so confused. Surely if they were from when we used them they'd have been thrown away months ago?! I'm pretty sure we threw the wrappers away every time....
I've checked again, there's 8 condoms and 2 empty wrappers. Wtf, who keeps condom wrappers?! I'm so confused. Surely if they were from when we used them they'd have been thrown away months ago?! I'm pretty sure we threw the wrappers away every time....
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Expiry 2017...doesnt mean anything to me.
Expiry 2017...doesnt mean anything to me.
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Another thing, I hadn't seen him for over a week and when we had sex he didn't finish.. Which NEVER happens, usually it's the other way round especially if we haven't done it for a while. I thought it was weird but now I'm thinking the worst..
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(Original post by tehFrance)
Well it should as it means those are new condoms... He's been a naughty boy
Well it should as it means those are new condoms... He's been a naughty boy
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Hmmm. Definitely weird. HOWEVER, it could be that he bought them ages ago, when you started dating and never threw them out. And re wrappers - again, maybe didn't get round to throwing them out as you were 'caught in the moment'. Ask him when he returns, casually, face to fact. His facial reaction will tell you everything.
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#10
(Original post by Anonymous)
How can you tell, could they have been bought around 6 months ago?
How can you tell, could they have been bought around 6 months ago?
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(Original post by tehFrance)
Considering that they should only be good for two years (approx), I doubt it but is there a manufacture date or is it just expiry date?
Considering that they should only be good for two years (approx), I doubt it but is there a manufacture date or is it just expiry date?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I read online it can be between 4-5 years?
I read online it can be between 4-5 years?
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He's having sexy times with someone else. You should stalk him or hire a private detective and confront him with the evidence. Shame him in front of his friends and record it and post it on you tube.
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(Original post by tehFrance)
Is there a manufacture date or not?
Is there a manufacture date or not?
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Omg that's so dreadful, you must be devastated you poor thing. It's so sad that your boyfriend is being unfaithful to you.
I would definitely confront him about this and expose his infidelity to the light of day. Men are so selfish and deceitful.
I would definitely confront him about this and expose his infidelity to the light of day. Men are so selfish and deceitful.
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#18
(Original post by C_tinie_D)
... maybe count how many condoms there are and at a later date (month or so) check again?
... maybe count how many condoms there are and at a later date (month or so) check again?
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#19
(Original post by chazwomaq)
Strong private detective potential.
Strong private detective potential.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend is out for a bit so I decided to clean his room to be nice while he is gone. Anyway, my morbid curiosity ended in my looking in his bedside drawer. Nothing unusual in there at first, until I saw a bag screwed up in the corner, in which I found about 6 condoms. We haven't used condoms for over 6 months and these aren't the same ones we used back at the beginning (different brand). I'm panicking now, I'm sure there's a rational explanation and I can't exactly confront him about it because I was obviously snooping. What can I do?!
My boyfriend is out for a bit so I decided to clean his room to be nice while he is gone. Anyway, my morbid curiosity ended in my looking in his bedside drawer. Nothing unusual in there at first, until I saw a bag screwed up in the corner, in which I found about 6 condoms. We haven't used condoms for over 6 months and these aren't the same ones we used back at the beginning (different brand). I'm panicking now, I'm sure there's a rational explanation and I can't exactly confront him about it because I was obviously snooping. What can I do?!
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