The electrostatic repulsion has a very large range relative to the strong force, so if you had a large nucleus such as 200 nucleons, then the nucleons at the centre of the nucleus wouldn't contribute to stabilizing the nucleons at the outer most part of the nucleus, whilst they are still being repelled by the coulomb force due to those same charged nucleons at the centre hence there is an imbalance of forces for those outer nucleons relative to the forces originated by the nucleons at the centre, coulomb and strong force.