Going off someone?

Earlier this yr i was with someone who was in army, one night i met him n his friends n me n one friend in particular seemed 2 flirt a lot ( we really got on, he was fun if ya get me ). Well anyways my bf moved away, but his friend stayed. I havent seen him in few months, n other nite i bumped into him. We both agreed we liked each other but couldnt do anything when ex was here. I have met up with him 3 times now, he seems to be a genuine nice guy, buys everything etc typical gentlemen. Tonight we were out n he was "ill n tired" so he wanted to go bk, i said u can come bk 2 mine if u want, he sed i aint that kind of lad! I explained that wasnt what i meant etc.
The day after i met him, he was being really persistent n txtin constantly, but now he seems 2 have met up with me he just txts now n again, n without kisses etc, has he gone off me?. We came home early 2nite n he txted me sayin sorry if i was borin, just not feeling myself, speak to you soon- but that was it, no texts after. He also thinks i am a party girl that goes out all time. Do you think he is going off me? I havent done anything sexual with him as i have made it clear that isnt what he is getting.x

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Nikolas

I'm sure he's just feeling guilty and really doesn't know what he should do. End it with your boyfriend and let him know - this guy doesn't just want to be your 'bit on the side'.