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is he being careful or plain not interested?

ok ive got a slightly weird situation...

basically i sort of asked this man who im really attracted to, to sleep with me (for the first time) just for sex. hes in his thirties, im 21. ive never propositioned a man like this before,lol, but i know him well and think we get on well

he said when i asked him he was stunned and very flattered-but he wont give me an answer yet.he said he thinks women cant detatch themselves from sex, that it stirs up a whole lot of emotions

So is he just being polite and doesnt fancy me? or is there a possiblity he does but needs to get his head round it?
Reply 1
He's worried you're going to turn into a clingy obsessed woman, when he just wants the sex then to leave.
Fleece
He's worried you're going to turn into a clingy obsessed woman, when he just wants the sex then to leave.


I agree, since your attracted to him if he sleeps with you, because you are attracted to him you may want more and more, and where if he suddenly decides oh i don't want to sleep with you anymore just as your feelings are getting deeper, you are going to be very hurt.
Don't do it!!