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Reply 1
sometimes i think why are they being nice and sweet is it a ploy to get me into bed then dump me, or are they really nice and sweet
but saying that you can tell weather they are only after one thing,

but anyways im going to stop typing now im talking outta my backside
I think alot of girls would crave a geniune nice guy.
Reply 3
Nice and sweet guys are a gem. Most of the guys I've met are all nice and sweet, especially my boyfriend. And being a Christian it's good to know neither of us are after sex cus we're both determined to keep it for marriage - so it's definitely me he's after :smile:
Reply 4
Carl1982
I think alot of girls would crave a geniune nice guy.


Nice but not wussy. There is such a thing as too sweet.
Reply 5
^^ exactly. Sweet guys can be great but...

I don't know what it is about bad boys that's so magnetic!!
Carl1982
I think alot of girls would crave a geniune nice guy.


...as their best friend.
Reply 7
Just my sort, espesh if they are a leetle geeky too. Oh and rosy-cheeked. :love:
Reply 8
And he catches the ball, runs ...
and into the friendzone.

Apart from with my girlfriend at the mo who is amazing. :smile:

I just don't get how some guys can be like so callous about relationships - like say having three going on at once etc.
Reply 9
minimo
Just my sort, espesh if they are a leetle geeky too. Oh and rosy-cheeked. :love:


oooohhh me likes geeky boyos! :love:
They are hard to find lol!
They're great apart from when they're late or don't text you or something and you thing they're being a **** so you get all ready to have a go at them but it turns out they have a perfect excuse and they were just being nice and sweet because that's what they are and then you have all this pent up anger and you want to have a go at them but you can't because they haven't done anything wrong.

Other than that I love them
Reply 12
Helenia
Nice but not wussy. There is such a thing as too sweet.

Exactly. A lot of guys who think they are nice guys, tend to be walkovers. That's not really very attractive in either sex.
I think nice/sweet guys are, oddly enough, nice and sweet. To comment further requires more information on individuals.

I don't like nice/sweet guys who are so keen on you that they get clingy. That happened to me once and the clinginess completely overshadowed the niceness and sweetness, which was a shame.
Reply 14
Nice and sweet is good at times, but my last boyfriend was REALLY nice and sweet. And I couldn't stand it! When I was in a good mood, then it was fine and I was really pleased that my bf was so lovely, but it did make him a bit of a walkover. So when I was in bad mood and I just wanted someone to argue with I'd pick him up on something and he'd just go 'oh sorry honey, I'm really sorry. I love you' which would infuriate me beyond belief, as I really need someone that will react to me and not just roll over and play dead. And nice guys tend to not be much of a challenge, they just agree with everything you say and support all your ideas. Whereas, its nice to have someone to challenge you every so often.

Sorry, rant over. :-S
Reply 15
maag101
I really need someone that will react to me and not just roll over and play dead. And nice guys tend to not be much of a challenge, they just agree with everything you say and support all your ideas. Whereas, its nice to have someone to challenge you every so often.

Sorry, rant over. :-S

Same (although nice girls rather than nice guys).

I've always wanted to like those girls who are basically like bubblegum, always sweet and bubbly, but I just can't handle it. I find the passion comes from a little bit of friction. A woman with her own mind who will tell me to shut up when I need telling, who will call me a **** when I'm acting one, and who isn't shy about saying why she disagrees with me when I say something she does disagree with, is much, much more attractive than a yes woman.
Good, but I think every girl likes a bit of rebellion and a boy who knows his own mind - not easily dominated by a woman :p: x
I'm sure there are nice, sweet guys who are not walkovers...
*hopes desparately*
ImperceptibleNinja
I'm sure there are nice, sweet guys who are not walkovers...
*hopes desparately*


*points to self*

Haha, yeah, I've had this problem for years, girls like me too much cos I'm sweet and it's not till after we've become good friends they know I'm a tough little ****er. LOL

What do you think of nice, sweet, but somewhat crazy goths? :wink:
please if u find one let me know:-P