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Ejaculation "issues" !!

I have a rather embarrassing problem....

my girlfriend gave me a "handjob" a fortnight or so ago, and it was mine first time receiving and her first time giving (to/from anybody - not just each other).

When we used to kiss, I occassionally got a bit of "pre-cum" in my underwear - now however, I seem almost entirely unable to ejaculate - I have to help her out but even then the process takes far longer than it should...basically - the opposite of Jim from American Pie 1!

I think nerves might play a part, but i'm generally not too nervous, however I would appreciate any advice on how to solve this problem.

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Google it.
maybe she just wasnt very good. give her some pointers
Oh to be 15 again...

I do actually remember it being quite hard to get off on a handjob. I think it's because girls, especially at that age, really don't know what they're doing. They just sort of grab it and start pumping away madly at it. Then it just starts to chafe :frown:

Get her to use her mouth, much better! No teeth though, and if she does bite, remember to grab her by the hair - NOT knee her in the jaw! That could cause a terrible accident.
Reply 4
Carl1982
Google it.



NEVER TYPE EJACULATION IN GOOGLE.
Er why not?
Carl1982
Er why not?


Your computer will TEH EXPL0DEZ!
:confused: anyway to the OP if google don't work write to dear derdrie.
Reply 8
hand jobs are never much cop, wouldnt worry about it
Reply 9
If your that scared, just repay her by fingerin her. Maybe the same thing will happen to her and then you'll both be happy


...

errrr...

or not.



:biggrin:
Reply 10
Toy Soldier
Oh to be 15 again...

I do actually remember it being quite hard to get off on a handjob. I think it's because girls, especially at that age, really don't know what they're doing. They just sort of grab it and start pumping away madly at it. Then it just starts to chafe :frown:

Get her to use her mouth, much better! No teeth though, and if she does bite, remember to grab her by the hair - NOT knee her in the jaw! That could cause a terrible accident.

laugh out loud
Reply 11
Choad
laugh out loud


If you insist.

Now I'm getting dirty looks from people standing outside my room!
Jerk the Gherkin a bit before she gives it a go.
Reply 13
Tell her to slowly lick the under side of it! works everytime
yeah its probably cos she isnt good enough yet. Handjobs only work as like a fondling type of thing unless you get her to be better or make her use lube or something. Just make her blow you actually. Return the favour though (or the feminists will kill me)
I felt I had to post when I saw the number of guys on this post who seem to think they can't get off when given a handjob by a girl. You've clearly never had a good handjob, and speaking as a girl who didn't give one til she was in her early twenties, I seemed to get the hang of it pretty quickly! Girls need not be rubbish at handjobs, just give your gf a few pointers.
Reply 16

Since you are 15, you may have not thought about this so have You and your Sister suggested teh penetration? :s


noobish.
Reply 17
what's teh? Or was it a typo?
Are you taking any medication? Depression pills for example?
Reply 19
Get really turned on before you do anything, teasing generally turns you on quite quickly. If you're really turned on before she touches you, you should be able to cum quite quickly.