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    There is this guy, I do like him but I have been pretty busy with University lately and I have been hurt a lot by guys in the past, so I was a little cautious about the whole seeing someone for the minute.

    He asked me around a month ago if I wanted to do something with him at the time I said I couldn't as I was really busy. On Sunday we arranged to go out finally today, I was pretty excited as I do like him.

    We speak quite alot throughout the day on whatsapp, well ever since Sunday he has just completely ignored me :confused:. I sent him one message on monday saying ''hiya'' and he didn't reply. Tried again today (Tuesday) just to see if he was still up for the date and he didn't reply to me.

    Finally he messaged me around an hour ago saying '' Sorry I haven't messaged you, I've been really busy''. Fair enough I said but you could have atleast let me know about the date. He then messaged back this....

    ''I was with another girl so I found it a little disrespectful to message you, I still want you tho ''.....

    Is he having a F-in laugh?!

    I don't understand, he's been trying to get with me for a while and he knew my reasoning for not wanting to at the start, he seemed perfectly ok with this and then as soon as I put myself out there I get my feelings squished.

    I don't get it :confused: I'm kind of upset like

    Sounds like an opportunistic jerk. Find someone else.
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    He's playing you both. Move on and find someone worth your time.

    ugh. don't waste anymore time on him, OP. Just keep yourself busy with uni
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